You can still want positivity for your disorder even if you genuinely struggle with the symptoms and wish you didn’t have it. Both of these things can co-exist and you’re valid.
“You are more than a list of mistakes and if anyone tells you otherwise, let it be the last they make.”
— Iain Thomas, I Wrote This For You
I think we need more radical acceptance that some people dislike us for reasons that make sense for their life experience. and we need to do this in a way that doesn't paint us as misunderstood victims because the fact of the matter is everyone is annoying to someone. you can't avoid that. and if someone is annoyed by you they aren't wrong about you being annoying and unlikable to them. the sooner we accept this the sooner we accept ourselves. we don't even like ourselves most of the time so why should we expect other people to uncritically enjoy every aspect of us regardless of our own internal struggle with our own extreme contrasts
Hijau dalam kepalamu, kelabu yang termaafkan.
“Sesekali mendung untuk menjadi tumpah tak masalah, sesekali kelabu untuk menjadi berwarna tak mengapa. Yang tertahan tak selalu menenangkan, yang hujan tak selalu memperburuk keadaan. Terkadang kita diselamatkan dengan cara yang memilukan.”
—Self Reflection, Venushara.
Ijeoma Umebinyuo, Questions for Ada
Peanuts, November 13, 1964
once you view the block button not as a furious silencing tactic but as a tool to personalize your social media experience...then you will be free
people will come and go from your life, sometimes with no clear reason. it’s not your fault nor theirs. you just drift apart and outgrow the friendship you once had. it’s so sad to see it go, but know that there will be others to look forward to.



