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@zigraves / zigraves.tumblr.com

Discord: ZiGraves. Blog no longer has a main theme or fandom and is just whatever I find interesting, but Baldurs Gate 3 is running the show right now. Askbox is open and accepting anon - come and say hi.
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Insane to me that the UK government is slowly trying to legislate trans people out of existence and I have not seen a single person talk about it

Single sex toilets are now legally required in all new buildings, the cass review may lead to a complete shutdown of all trans healthcare, single sex wards are being introduced to HOSPITALS and claims that trans people will be treated in private rooms is almost laughable given the current bed shortages, ensuring that trans people will be forced to wait even longer for life-saving procedures. Trans teenagers are being murdered and the government does not care. We are slowly being driven out of all public spaces and all healthcare.

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aprilslady

So the "trans people can't be in 'single sex' wards" thing has apparently been laughed at by NHS bosses who were like 'um can we focus on the wait times and not your "culture war" (I hate that phrase it diminishes the seriousness of the situation but it's what they said) against trans people please?'

I'm still wary,because there are very much people with transphobic views in the NHS and those of us who are trans or nonbinary ourselves are often scared of balancing not losing our jobs (don't come at me about principles I have a family to support too) versus standing up for ourselves and other trans people. Side rooms in hospital already exist. Usually for people who are an infection risk or who are dying. Occasionally for other reasons. But I do think even if these rules are forced in a lot of hospitals are going to end up having to scramble for special exemptions because the bed crisis continues and if you ask folks if they would rather have a) Someone actively dying (who should have privacy and dignity wherever that can reasonably be given to them) b) Someone with a highly infective illness (and no they can't always be housed on infectious diseases wards where everyone has a side room sometimes you've just got C.diff and you've had a heart attack) or c) Someone trans in the bay with you I hope most sensible people would go 'Oh yeah well actually I don't really need to know what genitals bed C has I mostly just want to get treated and go home'. But that doesn't mean there won't be a fight and it doesn't mean we should get complacent but yeah. No political party can practically force anything about hospital wards on anyone while the bed crisis continues to be as dire as it is because they are always going to need to break those rules. There are still people regularly being treated in corridors for heavens sake I genuinely don't know what they're doing.

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zigraves

the toilets thing isn't law yet as of 07th May 2024, it's "announced plans to make law". it's most probably the last thrashing of a government that's getting replaced pretty soon, and there's a decent chance for it to fail and sputter out rather than make it into law.

like yeah okay worry about the risk that Labour are shithead enough to continue the plans when the Tories lose the general election, worry they will eventually bring it into law, but for fucks sake, don't go claiming stuff is in law that isn't. genuinely. it is important to know what's an active legislative measure that's actively right now for real fucking people over and what's just an idea that hasn't been realised yet. it's important to know what needs fought and in what ways.

it's especially important not to cede ground the bastards haven't won yet.

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wednesdayche

need someone draw galethara like this

caption: You know, it's embarrassing for a man to sit on the back of a girl's motorcycle.

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velwynn

lmaooooo this is so perfect, a lazy edit but here you go

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duckbunny

ok Tumblr who's going to Worldcon?

to be clear I mean Worldcon 2024 in Glasgow in August, not any other event that may be taking place elsewhere

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zigraves

Me! I have my hotel booked (I think Wed-Tue) so I just need to book my trains up and back. There is a chance I am doing some light volunteering with some of the tech crew, which will like as not keep me busy.

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I think a lot of like discourse of what to focus on with this or that thing gets the end goal and things to ease newcomers into your ideas confused with each other.

Like yes perhaps the end goal is to get UBI going but if your Uncle Jerry is currently struggling with the concept of taxes maybe get him to understand the cost of road maintenance first before you start trying to get him onboard with free preschool.

Also just because someone is explaining the concept of taxes to Uncle Jerry doesn’t mean they don’t believe in free childcare.

Yes those ramps are for people with mobility aids. Able bodied moms with strollers can manage. But if you hear your neighbor Jessica complaining about how hard it is to get on the sidewalk with a stroller that can be an opening to be like ugh right and my sister can’t even get her walker up there either

Like yeah there’s other things more important to focus on but now you’ve got Jessica thinking about accessibility and she’s very good at writing angry letters to the city council.

Also I got my family to be politically anti-car by showing them cool technology like Dutch pedestrian-centric crossing lights and trolley busses because they’re people that are into neat technology and motors and things like that. The angry politics came later. Now they even take the bus once in a while in the car-centric city they live in.

Obviously neat little fun facts about crossing lights aren’t the end all be all of being politically anti-car but it’s a fun icebreaker for the right kind of person. And you shouldn’t assume that better crossing lights are my end goal just because I open with that.

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duckbunny

conceptually I love the library but in practice its sf&f collection is patchy, dated and thin, and the ebooks are mainly doctor who and also you can only browse the ebook collection in accession order, and no they do not buy any book you request. "libraries have everything you could want' is just a weird take! libraries have budgets. the budgets have been cut. if I want to read this year's Hugo nominees, I cannot do that at the library. like I'm not being contrarian here. libraries are a public resource and they are as wrecked as every other public resource. stop voting Tory so I can read books again.