I was today years old
when I learned that men around children are usually taken for paedophiles/child rapists. it never occured to me that men are seen that way as society I always think ‘wow that man loves children so much, so sweet’
You may find that more of your male friends/acquaintances who have been around children in public on even a semi-regular basis can describe to you the phenomenon I have dubbed the ‘pedo glare’, than you may want to believe. There have been rules on airlines that forbade men from sitting adjacent to children flat-out; that is how far pedophile hysteria has gotten.
The same phenomenon has sadly kept a large number of males from entering or remaining in the teaching profession who would otherwise be enthusiastic about doing so, and the last thing that industry needs is to push away the impassioned, as they have such a positive effect on the youth they educate.
Ironically this also leads to female pedos having better access to kids. Many female pedos falsely accuse men who are trying to SAVE the kid of pedophilia to cover their asses.
The calling card of female abusers in general is rampant misandry. Women who abuse men use it to dehumanise their targets, and women who abuse other women use it to make their victims think what is happening to them isn’t abuse.
I’ve made posts about this before, but pedo hysteria and misandry negatively affected my childhood as the daughter of a single father.
Luckily I had an older sister to fill some of the gaps. But if she wasn’t there? As a five year old I had to just suck it up. He couldn’t escort me to the bathroom or bring me into the men’s room. He couldn’t sit in on ballet class. He couldn’t chaperone class trips.
And when I was a kid he just dealt with it and would just say to me “Daddies can’t do that,” but when I was older I understood why: single men alone with children (especially girls) are considered a threat.
And in my situation, how could you even blame my dad? Someone being suspicious could have ruined his life. Is it worth it to stick it to society if that means being branded a pedophile or even losing your kid?
Bf loves kids. Bf is wonderful with kids. He regularly babysat his little sister’s gaggle of insane pals when their parents couldn’t be bothered, and they all behaved for him. His most loved dream is to be a father.
He tried to apply for a job at a daycare in high school and the woman handing out applications looked at him, all brawny beardy almost six feet of him, and decided right there that he was lower than shit on her shoe, and she treated him as such.
For asking for a job application. While a minor himself. Yeah.
Thats my personal anecdote, but there’s others of fathers having their children snatched right in front of them by women. When they give chase, the woman just has to scream for help and the father will be chased down and beaten into submission by heroic bystanders while his child is taken away right in front of him. Nobody will ask questions. Nobody will believe a word the father says. Nobody will question the woman. I’ve read about several instances of this. Sometimes they actually find the baby later. Nobody ever seems very sorry that they attacked a man trying to keep his child safe; they just justify that he seemed suspicious.
Boys, men, and fathers are treated like predators by our society.
