Starting to use my tumblr account in the event that Twitter becomes utterly unusable! I truly adore most spn characters but definitely post more deancas than anything else, also! if you are a mutual from twt and your username is different here then just make sure to send me a message so I know it's you! <3
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[ID: Three tweets in a thread from Twitter user @ socpens. Tweet 1: "put ur foot down if someone's apology has an "if" or "but" in it it aint real dont accept that shit they should do better". Tweet 2: "ive made many shitty apologies and as I get older I realize it costs literally nothing to just apologize in a way that doesn't minimize the other person's emotions and also accepts an amount of responsibility. If and but are ways of deflecting that". Tweet 3: "like instead of saying "im sorry if you interpreted it that way" just say "im sorry, I should have worded it differently, that's not how I wanted to come across", you are not making the other person the problem and you're not making yourself the devil either. Its just mistake" /End ID]
Hi pls reblog this version with the image ID added instead thanks !
There are three elements to a full apology:
First, saying sorry for the initial hurt that you committed.
Second, showing that you understand how you hurt them (through poor wording or whathaveyou).
Third, promising not to commit that harm again.
*me at a tech bros convention* self-driving cars are an idea of the past. IMAGINE. a fast, sleek, multi person vehicle. moving with efficiency and reliability to get you anywhere and everywhere, it’s “green” with +60% reduced GHG emissions, which will do wonders for the publicity even if we don’t actually care, and it doesn’t even explode… it's called a TRAIN you DUMB FUCKS. TAKE PUBLIC TRANSIT.
“One of the strongest feelings I remember from my childhood is, precisely, of being humiliated; of being knocked about by words, acts, or situations. Isn’t it a fact that children are always feeling deeply humiliated in their relations with grown-ups and each other? I have a feeling children spend a good deal of their time humiliating one another. Our whole education is just one long humiliation, and it was even more so when I was a child. One of the wounds I’ve found hardest to bear in my adult life has been the fear of humiliation, and the sense of being humiliated. Every time I read a review, for instance — whether laudatory or not — this feeling awakes. To humiliate and be humiliated, I think, is a crucial element in our whole social structure.”
— Ingmar Bergman; Interviews with Ingmar Bergman by Stig Bjorkman (via nemophilies)
Oh boy am I pissed off about having to participate in capitalist America
Ive got an idea
Mr Arson bestie, I'm excited to hear it
okay but when mary said “you mean too much to me” my brain supplied the thought “oh this is a quote from an iconic couple of cinema, i know it” before it remembered where it’s from
well you’re not wrong
gay people don't go to heaven or hell but a secret third thing
when lord huron uses repetition and gradual up-and-down melodies to literally lull you into an emotional stupor Yeah
start normalizing long hair as androgynous. long hair can be gender-neutral too.
tired of seeing nonbinary characters & fashion with short, dyed hair. give me long-haired enbies or give me death
it could be. you have the power to make this happen. but you won't. coward.
Little fanart I did of this incredible movie, go watch it!!
