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The line has been crossed...

You know I feel that some times people take Josh for an idiot. Some people seem to think that just because he is not a social media person doesn’t mean he is not aware of the bullshit and and the crap and the rumors and theories that come out of this fandom. He has friends and family his own GIRLFRIEND who are on social media and can easily show him all the crap that goes on. And what’s really upsetting is that even when josh calls these so called fans out they still have to twist up what he said into some kind of PR crap and conspiracy theory. The people who come up with this crap are such hypocrites. Anything that comes out of Josh mouth or anything the media puts regarding his personal relationship is automatically labeled PR. And I’m going to take a jab at joshifer hear but note this is not meant to be amid at all joshifer shippers because I respect the ones who are kind and respectful and don’t take part in this crap. But to those who say anything Josh say regrading his personal relationship is some kind of PR crap let me just ask you to take a look at your own ship all this crap that Josh and Jen do that some of you consider true love is all done in front of a camera like trying to show off this public relationship to the world and what does PR mean public relationship. They can’t stop saying to the cameras oh we are best friends oh we always hangout they are constantly bragging about this friendship to the media. But where is the proof because some silly interactions in front of the cameras and the media screams more PR then anything. The only time I remember them hangout together was that one time in NYC and mind you it looked like they didn’t want to be seen together and their faces didn’t look at all that thrilled. In real life Jen seems to be more caught up in her friendship with Amy. And Josh seems to be more into his other friends and into his family and going Spain to visit his girlfriend. I feel that people mixed up the meaning of privacy and PR . Josh not wanting to talk about his relationship doesn’t make it fake or it doesn’t mean he is not happy in his relationship all it means is that he wants privacy in his personal relationship because last I checked a relationship is between two people not two people and the rest of the world. And you know what else I said it already but some of you are real hypocrites and hear is how because I see it all the time Josh goes out with his girlfriend they are holding hands maybe a few kisses and giving a few hugs. Then all of a sudden I see on hear people saying oh that was staged they call the paparazzi there but now hear is another thing that happens a lot Josh and Claudia go out they are not touching not event holding hands and now hear comes the same of people saying oh what kind of relationship is that they won’t even hold hands it looks like they don’t even want to be next to each other then in my mind I’m just screaming hypocrites. Like honestly they show some PDA it’s PR they don’t show any PDA its PR at this point these two can get married and be together till the day they die and people will still be pulling shit out of their ass calling them fake. I’m not saying Josh and Jen are lying about there friendship all I’m saying is you should look at you own ship before you start calling out his real relationship. And another thing stop acting as if your theories are facts because until Josh says it himself that all they are ridiculous theories and as of right now these theories seem to be far from the truth. And let me just note what took place on Claudia Instagram the day she was spotted in Berlin with Josh was the most disgusting thing I have ever seen it made me embarrassed to be apart of the Josh fandom to be apart of a fandom that is filled with so much hate and bullshit over a relationship that really is none of your business(note this doesn’t apply to everyone in the fandom) Claudia is a human being she has feelings and she deserves to be respected she has done nothing to deserve the hate she got and the hate she continues to get. It’s time to let go of the theories and the crap and let Josh live his life with whoever he chooses to live it with. Because hating and coming up with ridiculous theories is not helping anyone your not helping Josh because he clearly doesn’t like it your not helping yourself or your ship because saying it doesn’t make what you said true and it doesn’t mean it’s going to come true just be you said it. You can ship whoever you want but lets stick to fun friendly shipping where we are not hurting Josh Jen and Claudia and where we are not hurting each just because we don’t ship the same thing. And at the end of the day lets remember these are real people with their own relationship they are not going to make a decisions on there personal life just to please the fans in fact when it comes to their personal life they rather the fans to just stay out of it.

don’t start dating your crush if

  • the attraction is purely physical (wanting to bang them =/= romantic compatibility)
  • you feel pressure to change or hide parts of yourself to get them to like you
  • aspects of their lifestyle make you uncomfortable (i.e. alcohol/drug use, people they hang out with, etc.)
  • they invalidate or belittle your identity or your passions (i.e. “Bisexuality means you’re confused!” “Writing can’t be a real career!” etc.)
  • they never stop talking about their exes
  • they only talk to you to vent their emotional baggage
  • they routinely ignore you without explanation
  • they’re only interested in conversations about themselves
  • you put effort into getting to know them, but they don’t seem to care about getting to know you
  • you constantly worry about their approval or pleasing them

no matter how much you like someone, basing a relationship around worshiping or trying to fix someone or fueling an inferiority complex is unhealthy and leaves you vulnerable to toxic and emotionally draining relationships. attraction is strong and we do dumb things when we’re infatuated with someone, but please remind yourself that your own well-being should always take priority over any potential romance and run far away if anyone, especially your crush/partner, suggests otherwise.

You have no idea how much this would have saved me a year ago sweet baby jesus BOOST!!!

oh god i should print this out

Remember Jen grabbing Josh at the Hunger Games Exhibition when the beach scene played? 

And now how she reached for his hand when then “real or not real” clip showed? 

 Just imagine what she must’ve done when they saw the screening of the film and got to the epilogue.