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Well, It’s A Sandman Blog I Guess…

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Sandman Master Post and Intro

Hi, I’m so glad you’re here! This started out as a small blog but has developed a horrifying (^jk) life of its own over the past two years, so it was about time I organised the links and tags to all my Sandman stuff for you to make it easier to find your way around.

I love getting asks about all of the below, so see this as an encouragement to slide into my inbox…

[For quick reference:]

Ordered by topics (recommended):

Want to know who I am? Read on…
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Cancelling a person or media does little if anything to help the victims/survivors of violence. Harassing other people who are just as uninvolved does nothing and is in fact terrible and counterproductive.

Instead, send money or other resources to organizations that actually help survivors. Volunteer for a help line. Donate to a shelter for queer youth or DV survivors.

I'm not familiar with legitimate non-U.S. organizations and don't want to risk promoting a bad one. So if anyone has suggestions that are vetted, please add them on.

If you are upset enough to feel the need to do something, make it something constructive instead of destructive.

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The podcast isn’t completely paywalled and Tortoise Media isn’t owned by Boris Johnson (please people, check your sources!)

Ok, this is the last I’ll say about this:

PLEASE don’t reblog everything unchecked. PLEASE do your own research before you reblog stuff unquestioned. Don’t rely on other people’s often questionable “summaries”. The unsubstantiated crap I’ve seen on here today is honestly starting to get embarrassing, and people reblog it without as much as checking if it’s true. I’ve listened to the thing in its entirety, and I still don’t blog about it and won’t. My guess is that the majority of people who reblog haven’t listened at all and just rely on what other people write. That’s how you create echo chambers that align with your own bias, and that’s also how you spread misinformation. And we have plenty of that by now.

The latest thing I’ve read is that Boris Johnson (former UK PM) owns Tortoise Media. No, he doesn’t (in fact, they’ve dragged him several times. The fact that his sister, who he doesn’t get along with btw, was involved in this particular report doesn’t change that one bit. She used to be Conservative, then changed to the LibDems and is now Independent. Her other views are a different topic). And it’s all very easy to find out and takes barely a minute.

The person who spreads that misinformation also writes that the “Conservative Party is further to the right than the Tories”. Dude, the Tories and the Conservatives are the SAME PARTY! 🤦🏻‍♀️ And people reblog it and vehemently agree. I’m sometimes just despairing on here.

Btw, the podcast is not paywalled (I read this constantly on here). It’s only behind a paywall on Tortoise’s own page, but you can freely listen to it on e.g. Apple Podcasts and other podcast platforms. With free transcripts to read. There:

Peddling of misinformation helps no one.

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I’m running a Sandman blog. As such, I feel I can’t not say anything, but I’ll make this short (for me):

I believe victims. I’m a psychotherapist and work with them almost every day. My trust in the legal system on these matters is therefore also limited and a complicated affair. Having said this, I will withhold further commentary as the situation unfolds, because it’s too complex.

I also believe that stories have meaning to us that goes beyond their creators, and that meaning doesn’t suddenly fall away because of their creators’ actions, although it can, and that’s also okay.

Our feelings are allowed to be complicated, and no one deserves any type of harassment because they still love a story while simultaneously grappling with feelings of anger, disgust or simply sadness towards or about its creator. Neither does anyone deserve any hard feelings because they decide they don’t want to engage anymore. Our feelings are our own, and we don’t have to justify them to anyone.

Fandoms exist because of story and community. And those stories and communities don’t suddenly stop existing, so I hope we can remember to treat each other with respect and empathy moving on from here.

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Jeez, S2 news come out, and everyone and their mother puts their fanfic that has NOTHING to do with S2, or the series in the slightest, under the Netflix and S2 tags. While that might give you a bit more exposure, it doesn’t encourage me to read your stuff. It actually makes it less likely I’ll even look at it because I’m not in a fic mood if I look for news.

Don’t get me wrong, I love fanfic and write it myself. I don’t mind reading it in general, hence won’t block the fic tags, but do we really need to shove it into completely unrelated tags?

I get that fic writers often have a hard time to be seen, especially if they don’t write for the flavour of the month (ask me how I know), but consciously wrong-tagging for exposure is not gonna solve that problem because it’s aiming at the wrong crowd. It’s like advertising your sparkling wine to people who only drink beer, but trying to make them believe it’s beer. Which is annoying, right? Do we really want that when we’re already struggling to get taken seriously by certain corners of fandom anyway?

Casting the net a bit wider with different iterations of character tags, even ones that maybe aren’t 100% on, I get to a degree (e.g. because some people are still not clear on the difference between OC and reader tags). But if we looked for fic, we wouldn’t be in a very specific news tag…

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Sandtober2023 - 13. Lovely Ladies & 14. Castle

„There's a downstairs in everybody. That's where we live.“
~ The youngest of the Three

After a little downer I feel much better again. I took my time to do this piece and while crosshatching these motives I was feeling like in mediation. Very calming and peaceful … leaving the topic beside!

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Dearest @orionsangel86 - I want to thank you for your kind words regarding my last posting and my ranting. I never wanted to make anyone feel bad and I LOVE your prompts, really. Pushing own limits are never easy and this day it was a little bit too much. I am so thankful for this lovely and talented and inspiring community I found in THIS place as well as at Insta and Xitter. Your guys are great and you are doing amazing jobs. Thank YOU!!

This is amazing!

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Finally official cast announcements for Sandman S2!

(…even if we knew/intuited a few of these)

And:

  • Ruairi O’Connor as Orpheus

I’m just looking at the article again:

Is this as close as we’ll get to a confirmation that we’ll either need to wait for AGoY (which doesn’t make sense IMHO), or that it’ll be smushed into either SoM or Brief Lives in a very changed way?

Because announcing Wanda but no Thessaly, Hazel and Foxglove, plus the returning cast with no other hints that would suggest AGoY?

I mean, I’ll happily wait for more cast announcements, but…

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Dream and Bast—Craig Hamilton

I still think they should have hooked up. They definitely had chemistry, and to see Morpheus, who is always so dead-pan, slightly flustered by her flirtatiousness still cracks me up. To this very day, I’m wondering what would have happened if she’d answered, “Yes,” to, “You’d ask that of me?” Maybe that was giving her a way in, and the silly cat didn’t take it 🤣

They should have gotten it out of their system if you ask me…

On a completely unrelated note: That darned free-floating ruby is back…

@duckland Right? Not like he showed up wearing much more than in Hamilton’s take (plus, it’s in the Absolute Sandman, so they signed it off). I mean, it’s all totally canon 🤣

And that one panel of silence in the next one. LMAO. She should have just said, “Yes.” Or carefully test the waters with, “What if I did?”

Then again, maybe she’s too good to be the rebound for rebound-Thessaly. But who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️