theselfcarelifestyle
Sometimes you don’t get what you want, because you deserve better.
“Fuck the fuckboys before the fuckboys fuck you”
— Unknown
“You need people in your life that are further along than you, people that are more experienced, people that are out of your league. You need to be exposed to new levels so that you can go to new levels.”
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Source: amargedom
tomorrow is a chance to build on today’s progress
Sometimes you just have to take a breath and let things go. Even if they bother you. Even if they aren’t right. Just breath. It doesn’t have to affect you right now.
the things you find unattractive about yourself are all part of the human body. not shameful, not ugly. your body is just doing it’s job, keeping you together. your acne, your stretch marks, your skin folds. please try your best to see your body as what it is, natural and deserving of love.
It's really all about being present. Accepting and allowing what is, letting go of resistance and the need to have an answer to everything. Instead, live the questions, embrace the unknown with curiosity and excitement, practice patience, humbleness. Stop chasing decisions, allow them to come to you naturally at the right timing. Trust, learn to listen to your gut. Take it step by step. Enjoy the little things. Don't wait, don't get lost in planning for the future - be happy now, and see how life is unfolding perfectly just by itself. It's easy.
tomorrow is a chance to build on today’s progress
Sometimes people exist just for you to have a good time with and then move on from. And once you can accept that, it makes everything a lot easier, because a lot of happiness stems from managing expectations. The reason we get hurt so much is because we have a good time with someone and then we obsess- waiting for them to text us, wanting to see them again, stalking them, picturing our life with them- and then when we find out they don’t want exactly what we do, we’re crushed. But really, they don’t owe us a future or anything at all, they don’t even owe us a text the next day. And I’ve come to accept that sometimes a good time can just be a good time, without the promise of a future, and that’s fine.
it can be tempting to live your life like a prequel. to live as if you’re setting up your own story.and once you lose the weight, once you have the money, once you graduate school, once you’re in a real relationship, once, once, once. then finally, you’ll begin to live, and everything you do up until that point is some kind of half-life, some unimportant foreword you can skip. don’t do this. inhabit your life completely. sink fully into the wealth of your existence. the power to manifest is in the fearless owning of who you are, so that you can shape where you’re going.
holy moly i am so stinking proud of me!! i’m really out here living everyday for myself!! i’m speaking kindly to this body that wakes up everyday and gets ish done!! i know my worth!! i know my limits!! i know that this life is mine and i’m the one in control!!
“We’re not the same person we were a year ago, a month ago, or a week ago. We’re constantly changing. Experiences don’t stop. That’s life”
— Unknown (via purplebuddhaproject)
THERE’S TOO MANY THINGS I STILL WANT TO SAY TO YOU. LIKE FUCK YOU. FUCK YOU. FOR EVERYTHING. MY FINGERS STILL DIG INTO MY SKIN EVERY TIME YOUR NAME IS SPOKEN.
