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How to Manage Your Anger | Suzanne Kane
Photo by Sollers, Unsplash Anger is a much-misunderstood emotion. While powerful and often intense, anger can also manifest itself in subtle ways. It can motivate you to act or compel you to take inappropriate action. It's also somewhat unpredictable, in that you may not always know when you'll get angry, not understanding the triggers. Pent-up anger can lead to physical complications such as cardiovascular disease. Learning how to manage your anger is important, especially if you've noticed you're experiencing this emotion more frequently or intensely. Slow down and listen. Let's say you find yourself in a discussion with a co-worker, family member or friend and it starts to get heated. Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Instead of blurting out an angry retort, hit the pause button. Think of what you're going to say before it comes out of your mouth. Slowing down will also help you figure out what's behind the words -- yours and the other person. If your partner