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Will They Change If you Give Them What They Want? - Barry Winbolt
People often say that they 'won't give in'. They come up with all sorts of reasons. The problem can be that sometimes we need to placate the other person before we can have a proper discussion that will lead to understanding. By contrast, it's also common to overuse placation to keep the peace. This is a short term strategy that creates two losers.