Do you remember what it was like to be a new mum? - The Thud
When you visit a new mum, look at her eyes. Don't assume she's head over heels. Don't assume she's loving every minute. Ask her how she's REALLY doing. Tell her you know it's so hard. Tell her how much better it gets. Tell her she's not weird or sick because she finds some moments totally awful. CHERISH HER.