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Early experiences of being asexual | Stephen Broughton
I thought I'd share some of my recent experiences of being an "out" asexual. This covers a period of between one and two years. I won't say that the reaction has been overwhelmingly positive; rather, it hasn't been negative. But that was very much in line with expectations. I didn't want a mardi gras in my honour or to be commended by the town mayor; it's just not that major. However, it did feel like a major thing at the time. It was the culmination of a process of realising that how I felt was broadly in line with the definitions of this thing called "asexuality". The biggest problem with telling people is that it's not mainstream. In general, it's not that well understood among the wider population. As a thing, it's quite young, but what's worse is that it's hard to understand. For many asexuals, understanding sexuality is difficult; in a society where sexuality is not only the norm but, to some extent, a form of currency*, understanding what it is like to have that element removed