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Phil Wants A Divorce-College Memoirs: Life At Roanoke-The Long, Dark Painful Tunnel, Part 5 - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
Phil fit the trait "unceremoniously discarding," here: What is Abuse ("Overt Abuse"). For years, I wondered why an abuser would leave his victim, and thought that it must have been because I resisted.