Reblog: "Dealing With Abuser"-and How It Brings Up Memories - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
I just read the post Dealing with the Abuser by Pastor Jeff Crippen. Lots in here reminds me both of my ex Phil, and of the ex-"friends" Richard and Tracy, especially Tracy. It's validation yet again, helping to reassure me that I was correct, that it wasn't my fault, that I didn't deserve it. I'll point out the parts which especially jumped out to me and why: