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On Breaking Up With Kindness-College Memoirs: Life At Roanoke-March 1995, Part 7 - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
It told how to go about breaking up with a guy so that you'll still be friends with him later. I could have used this advice sooner, but it reassured me that I had done nothing wrong, and that apparently I broke up with Stimpy well enough that he would still want to be friends with me.