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On The Idea That God Has Someone In Mind For You - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
Finding a mate is not always a matter of patience, waiting for God’s match for you to come along. It could also be a matter of where you are in your life, how willing you are to take the initiative, how you act, how picky you are, etc. Sometimes it’s not you, but the lack of good or available catches in your social circles. (You begin to think arranged marriages are a great idea.) Even getting married is not the cure-all it’s made to seem in popular culture. Sometimes people find the “perfect” man/woman and get totally disillusioned. …