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Controversy Over Alisa Valdes; Why I Share My Life Publicly; Signs Of Abuse; Women Abusing Men - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
Tonight I stumbled on the controversy over Alisa Valdes’ latest book, a memoir of how a cowboy got her to stop being militantly feminist, and start being more submissive. The cowboy turned out to be an abuser, which got feminist tongues tsking, while relational conservatives (is that a term?) loved the idea of women being more submissive. Because she exposed the abuse in a blog post but then removed it immediately, people began to wonder why she was hiding it. From Valdes’ blog posts, I see that she is neither “patriarchal” nor deceptive; it’s more complicated than that. I link…