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Carolyn Hax: Deciding When To Call The Police/CPS; Seeing Abuser Again; Socializing With Abusive Spouse Of A Friend - Nyssa's Hobbit Hole
Read her response here. In my own case, I knew someone who works "in the system," so I asked her for advice. But if you can't do that, Carolyn has some good ideas.