Squeaky Wheels (The world needs more Ts in it)
It's often said that squeaky wheels get the oil and it's absolutely true. The question is, is it fair?? In our family, there one child who is so intense, so persistent, so over-the-top, so busy, that he demands a lot of our attention. I am forever feeling guilty about the amount of time and energy spent with/on/managing this child and/or his behavior. On the one hand, I know that he needs this from us while, on the other, it seems very unfair to those who aren't as squeaky, for lack of a better term. Then, we have another child who is an