She was only pretending to forget: A family in denial even after the patient's death | Dementia Care Notes
Rukmini is the granddaughter of a dementia patient who passed away in an old-age home a few years ago. Rukmini's mother and aunt, caregivers of the patient, never acknowledged the diagnosis of dementia, and did not take it into account while caregiving. Even now, years after the patient's death, Rukmini's mother does not understand that the patient's strange behavior was caused by confusion and frustration; she is convinced that the patient was being uncooperative and inconsiderate.