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Amr on Forbearance: True forbearance is patience with insults, abuse | Daily Hadith Online
Abu Salil reported: Amr ibn al-'As, may Allah be pleased with him, said, "The truly forbearing one is not the one forbearing with those who are forbearing with him and who insults whoever insults him. Rather, the truly forbearing one is forbearing with those who are forbearing with him and is forbearing to those who insult him." Source: al-Mudārāh al-Nās 6 عَنْ أَبِي السَّلِيلِ قَالَ قَالَ عَمْرُو بْنُ الْعَاصِ رضي الله عنه لَيْسَ الْحَلِيمُ مَنْ يَحْلُمُ عَمَّنْ يَحْلُمُ عَنْهُ وَيُجَاهِلُ مَنْ جَاهَلَهُ وَلَكِنَّ الْحَلِيمَ مَنْ يَحْلُمُ عَمَّنْ يَحْلُمُ عَنْهُ وَيَحْلُمُ عَمَّنْ جَاهَلَهُ 6 مداراة الناس لابن أبي الدنيا