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Seneca, Stoicism and the Golden Rule | Reflections on Theology and Moral Philosophy
"You should rejoice with your neighbor in all his joys and sympathize with him in all his troubles, remembering what you should offer and withhold." What should we offer? That which increases the love in our hearts. What should be withheld? The bitterness and anger and resentments that poison our relationships.