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"Let's NOT OFFEND, let's GO FEND our basic human emotion for a child." As a culture we are beginning to become more constructive of others from civil rights, interracial marriages, gay rights, women rights, fertility rights. The word, "tolerance" was not used purposefully because as a society we need to look at situations positively rather than "tolerating" someone for who they are. Too often, infertile or dysfertile parents are offended by others for well, just being them. Somehow as a society we have "normalized" and numbed ourselves with how we treat (discrimination) infertile or dysfertile families and children born out of fertility treatments like IVF. To be clear: It is NOT OK to ask someone about the fertility issues even in the best of intent. If the person feels comfortable with you, they will confide. It is NOT OK to say have you tried adoption instead of IVF? There are so many kids in the world who could use adoption. It shows lack of ground realities and the stringent