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Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Mel Schwartz
Countless people struggle with the answer to this most daunting question. As our relationship hangs on the precipice of making this decision, how we go about making the "right" choice is critical. Committed relationships are typically fraught with challenges and much emotional and psychological upheaval. Yet, these challenges are rife with opportunity at the same time. The opportunity is for our individual growth, and possibly, the growth of the partnership. Let's look at what's necessary for making an enlightened decision about the future of our relationship. Anger We should never make any life-altering decision from anger. Our wrath may feel justifiable and we need to appropriately express our feelings, but beneath the anger lays deeper and more authentic emotions, such as fear, sadness or pain. Try getting in touch with your more vulnerable feelings and take the risk of expressing them to your partner. Articulating what feels vulnerable is not weak; it's just the opposite. It's