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When Fear of losing Love Makes Us Boundless
We do not set boundaries. At the moment. Even though we recognize it, we should do so. We let it go. Although the experience takes hold of us, we allow it, without standing up for ourselves. We trivialize it, as "it's nothing," "it is not so important", "it does not matter," "she is right and I get peace." We're lying about the incident. To ourselves. You may experience it with your mother? With your children? Your friend? Your boyfriend? The feeling is the same even though the source is different. Towards special people in our lives we find it hard to say no. We are afraid of their reaction. In order that they would withdraw from us. Push us away. And shut down their love. We smile and continue with the conflict, we do not dare to face it outwardly, now instead it has started inwardly. It will be unsafe for everyone involved when we cannot rely on the answers we get and give. There must be congruence between what we think, feel and say if it should feel good. For the energy behind