Taking Some of the Heat: the Obligations of Defenders
As a bisexual woman, I make an explicit effort to avoid dating straight, cisgender men. It started as kind of a lark, when I “gave up” straight people for Lent in 2016. I’d just ended a torturous on-again-off-again-what-is-wrong-with-this-man thing and decided “nope, no more straight dudes for a w