My friend was my bridesmaid, but I wasn't hers
There are so many rules when getting married. Don't shag the best man; keep the bar stocked; wear Spanx two sizes too small; register for crap you don't want but your mother-in-law says you must have; never EVER invite children, especially your own; and make sure your bridesmaids look good but not great. I met 'Kate' (I will refer to