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Such a Pill - Anna Rosenblum Palmer
Standing in the sunshine chatting with a friend while she waters our community garden our talk turns from carrots and beets (why is it that 40 something women love beets?) to drugs. Despite being in Colorado, and standing amongst buds and leaves we are not talking about the green kind, but the pink oval pills that get me out of bed each day. She works in the field and confirms what I have been reading and experiencing myself…our system is providing less support for mental illness, exactly at a time when talk about mental health swirls around gun control rather than treatment. After a year and a half of taking a “new” anti-depressant that requires special authorization and Doctor testimony as to its status as “the only medication this patient hasn’t gained a tolerance for” my insurance has stopped paying. NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness wrote a paper on funding cuts in mental health treatment subtitled “a national crisis” in 2011. Things have only gotten worse since then. Walking across the waxed to a gloss floor to the back of the pharmacy for the third week in a row I thought again about how lucky I am. Not that each WEEK I have to pay 94 dollars for an “emergency” supply as the doctor pharmacist and I wait for insurance approval but that I CAN pay. While my boys load their arms with candy and chips and put on their most pleading expressions I wait for MY treats. I have the same conversation at the pick up window that I have had 18 times over the last four months. The same conversation that I had over the phone with this pharmacy 6 hours ago. I KNOW I don’t have authorization from my insurance company. I STILL want them to fill the prescription. I WILL pay out of pocket. To a person they respond in disbelief. Do I know how much it costs? Why yes I do. But do they understand the cost of not having it? No, despite their training and status as medical consultants they don’t seem to. They don’t know how looking at the loft that my husband and son built will make me cry. How the excitement and accomplishment that the 10 year old feels will be wiped out by a strange swirl of my rage and fear, which leaves me standing mute but nodding my head “no, no, no, no” . I imagine that wobbly thing collapsing, Oliver’s head smashed open on his floor. I feel rage, genuine rage, about the visible stamps on the 2 x4s, why did they use this material? They must have no sense of pride, no aesthetic standards, who are these people and how do I live with them? Heading downstairs I see a miniature milky way wrapper on the kitchen counter. This reminds me of long ago, before my current medication where each leftover breakfast remain was a milky little bowl of fuck you. What kind of ...