Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do I Keep Getting Shut Out?
Hi Doc, I was wondering if you had any advice on getting to create one on one time with girls I like and am attracted to, especially when group dynamics and petty drama comes into play. I'm a pretty nerdy guy but well put together enough that I'm not awkward. Because of this I come across the same problem in most of the nerdy circles I'm in constantly. I get left out or cut out of conversations involving any attractive girl in the group or one of her extended friends. Concurrently, for some events I'm not even invited because I