Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Quit Being a 'Nice Guy'?
Hey Doc, Uhh long time reader first time asker etc, So I guess I'm a former Nice Guy. Read every nice guy article on the internet and 8 years later, I super feel no one has like an obligation to love me, just like I don't have an obligation to love anyone else. I started trying to fix myself, going to the gym, being more social, making better fashion choices, etc. I'm no longer afraid of 'The Friend Zone' because that actually means I have friends. A ton of girls friend-zoned me in the past, but it's no problem. It's more