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Doing things at the worst timings

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Miffy | 18 | I just make stuff from time to time and then look at and share more stuff writing blog: @somestuffbysomebird

Santa is on strike due to global warming.  All presents this year will be delivered by Sasha the Christmas Tiger.  Milk and cookies may not be sufficient.

“MUST BRING PRESENTS TO GOOD CHILDREN”

“Yes good”

“AND EAT THE BAD ONES”

“Wait no”

“EAT THEM”

“sasha no”

@burstofhope the Christmas tiger is watching

She is making a list

It is not easy with her paws but she is making it

shes almost here

Okay fine this is the ONE Christmas thing I will reblog before Thanksgiving BUT THAT’S IT

SASHA’S BACK ON MY DASH!

Y’all better behave, you have two months

You better watch out

You better watch out

You better watch out

You better watch out

50 Wordless Ways to Say “I Love You”

  1. Holding their hands when they are shaking.
  2. Tucking the sheets around them when they stir during the night.
  3. Traveling long distances just to see them.
  4. Making their favorite meal when they are having a hard day.
  5. Giving them a kiss before going to work and they are still in bed.
  6. Tucking your head into their neck during a hug.
  7. Lightly kissing on top of a freshly formed bruise.
  8. Buying them something unrequested because it made you think of them.
  9. Participating in their hobby even if it doesn’t personally interest you.
  10. Sitting in comfortable silence while eating a meal.
  11. Telling them a dumb joke just to see their smile.
  12. Following their family traditions that they enjoy.
  13. Playing your fingers through their hair while sitting next to them on the couch.
  14. Singing and dancing to their favorite song.
  15. Calming them down when they have a bad dream.
  16. Having a tickle fight until you’re breathless.
  17. Folding their clean laundry and putting it away.
  18. Sharing a soft smile across a crowded room.
  19. Bringing them a plate of their favorite sliced fruit.
  20. Washing their back/hair in the shower.
  21. Sharing your umbrella with them in the rain.
  22. Listening to them while they vent.
  23. Taking a picture together to print and hang later.
  24. Tracing your names together in the sand.
  25. Wearing clothes in their favorite color.
  26. Doing a chore for them that you know they aren’t fond of.
  27. Leaving a plate of food in the microwave for when they have a late shift.
  28. Sharing a drink with them from the same straw.
  29. Tucking their hair behind their ear to help them get it out of their face.
  30. Helping scratch that itch on their back they can’t reach.
  31. Pulling a chair out for them to sit down at the table.
  32. Wrapping a blanket around them when they are sitting on the couch and watching a show.
  33. Throwing away their piles of tissues when they have a cold.
  34. Mending an item of their clothing that was ripped.
  35. Running out in the middle of the night to get a food item they’re craving.
  36. Helping brush their hair after a shower.
  37. Making sure to be quiet while they’re taking a nap.
  38. Letting them warm their cold hands under your shirt.
  39. Giving them your dessert when you eat out because it’s their favorite.
  40. Making a goofy face until they notice and laugh.
  41. Giving them space when they express wanting to have some time alone.
  42. Holding their hand while walking, even if there isn’t a crowd.
  43. Holding shopping bags that are too heavy for them.
  44. Standing between them and a busy road.
  45. Rubbing the back of their hand with a thumb.
  46. Giving them a back massage when they flop on the couch or bed.
  47. Staying up half the night to finish a game with them.
  48. Getting them a coffee just the way they like it.
  49. Giving them a tight hug that makes them lose their breath.
  50. Buying them a special treat when you go out shopping.

my friend just told me that there's a secret second dashboard that solely contains posts from people you've turned on post notifications for, and when i click the link in the messages it opens it within the tumblr app, so the tumblr app also has a secret second dashboard for post notification blogs, and the only way to access it is to open the link for it within the app.

i literally love tumblr

This website really is held together by a pair of shoelaces isn’t it

hi!! im in a bit of a rut with my writing and since i get most of my writing advice from this account, do you have any tips for writing for arguments? it seems like an easy thing to write for, but as it turns out, writing good people as angry but not toxic-harmful is harder than it looks askjhjkas

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Hi :)

How to write an argument

What is it about?

  • this can often be answered with one instance/one thing they argue about
  • but remember that most arguments have an underlying issue
  • something they actually fight about, something that made them angry or anxious enough to get into an argument, sometimes about small and unimportant things
  • in short: arguments are often proxy wars for other problems

toxic vs. non-toxic

  • when people are in extremely emotional situations they tend to act irrational and say things they normally wouldn't - the good and the bad ones

the differences between them:

  • a non-toxic person has a much higher threshold to saying things that deliberately hurts the other person, there would need to be extreme stress for them to do that
  • for a toxic person, this would come much more easier and quicker, they don't have to be provoked that much or at all to lash out
  • a non-toxic person would realize what they did immediately and feel genuinely bad about it, because hurting other people is not what they normally do and nothing they want to do; they would apologize very genuinely and they would know that the other person is definitely within their right to not accept that apology; they would give them their space and only try to make it up to them if the other person still wants them to be around
  • a toxic person would probably not feel bad, but within their own rights; if they apologize, it's more like an act involving gaslighting, telling the other person 'I'm sorry, but...' and basically faulting the other person for making them like that, for provoking them

Summary

  • people tend to not be their best self in an argument and much more controlled by emotions
  • there are often other underlying issues that suddenly come up in an argument, even if that argument wasn't originally about this topic
  • to keep it non-toxic, you could have your characters genuinely apologize and respect the other's wishes
  • they could also walk away from the argument to calm down and then come back later to rationally solve the issue

Some other posts that could help you out: How to write emotional scenes|How to write yelling

Hope this is helpful for you!

- Jana

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CHINESE GIRL PRETENDS TO BE A GHOST TO AVOID PARKING CHARGE

Can’t bloody believe that.

“In news today, there was a sudden drop in creativity and ingenuity worldwide as one Chinese woman suddenly sucked all of it into herself in order to perform the best prank of all time.”