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...i don't belong, and my beloved, neither do you

@wherela

Kayla || 21 || Christian || ENFP || multifandom || this blog is a complete mess, but feel free to go through it if and when you want to :)
Anonymous asked:

What's the meaning behind your url???????

Before we start, here are 2 things you need to know: my name is Kayla, and I live in Poland.

Now my name here is something very rare. I'm one of the people who's name nobody can pronounce properly, and because my name is weird, I always get asked: where are you from/what's the story behind it etc (which I kinda love tbh). You see, in Polish the letter "a" is pronounced [uh], and therefore a lot of people call me [Kai-la (or like pronounced Kyla I guess)].

Poland also has a few dialects, one of them being called Silesian. In Silesian, the word "kaj" [pronounced: kai/kye], means "where". So basically I looked at my own mispronounced name, took the part that sounds like a word in one language, and translated it into another one.

In summary: kayla -> 'kaj'la -> 'where'la. My url is just a play on my name, over 3 different languages :)

No offense but everyone needs to stop being so obsessed with gender. No men don't suffer more. No women don't suffer more either. Everyone has a different type of suffering. There's disgustingly selfish women and there's disgustingly selfish men. Both face different types of injustices. It's not a competition. Just stop.

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don’t!!! fake!!!! your!!!! interests!!!! to!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

don’t!!! bury!!!! your!!!! interests!!! to!!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

I was extremely lucky to grow up in an environment where I never faced sexism or any gender-based discrimination but it does mean now a. I never recognize it and b. My first response when I do is "sexism??? But that's so silly??? In this day and age?????"

you don’t talk too much. you aren’t too loud. you aren’t too needy. you aren’t too sensitive. you aren’t too this, or that. you aren’t too much anything. you will never be too much: you are you, and you are allowed to take up space. you are allowed to exist however you choose.

Gollum, who murdered his best friend for something he’d just found: I cannot BELIEVE that this Baggins just STOLE from me! I hate him forever now! You can’t just STEAL someone’s things that you find on the floor. I am absolutely incensed right now! Thief! Thief!