All non binary people are valid.

Neurogender non binary people are valid.

Xenogender non binary people are valid.

Trauma-based non binary people are valid.

Ace and aro non binary people are valid.

Non binary people whose gender(s) is/are related to their kintype(s) are valid.

Non binary children, teenagers, adults and seniors are valid.

Non binary people who use she/her or he/him pronouns are valid.

Non binary people who keep their birth name are valid.

Non binary people who look “typically” male or female are valid.

Closeted non binary people are valid.

Non binary people who live in a place without the language to describe their gender are still valid.

Neurodivergent and disabled non binary people are valid.

Non binary people who still misgender themselves are still valid.

Non binary people who used to ID as binary trans are still valid.

Non binary people who have to pretend to be binary trans are still valid.

Non binary people who are questioning themselves are still valid.

Non binary people whose gender is fluid are still valid.

Non binary people whose gender sometimes encompasses binary genders are still valid.

Any non binary people who I’ve missed on this list are valid and I’m sorry if I’ve left you out.

All non binary people out there - you are valid. 

I hope you never let antagonistic gatekeepers convince you otherwise.