Spoonie wishes for 2018

May our doctors believe us.

May we get that diagnosis.

May we find a medication that works for us.

May find spoons, even when we think we’ve run out.

May our family and friends understand our fight.

May strangers not stare at mobility aids.

Please, add more! Spread the spoonie love! <3

May we get our disability we’ve been fighting for years to receive!!!!

Super selfie dump because i like how my make up came out today

Ur hair is super cute!!

New rule: don’t engage with people who say things like “invisible disabilities aren’t real”. Just don’t. 

These people are too self-centred, and too up their own crack, to realise that the world doesn’t revolve around their ableist, arse pit of a life. They’re the kind of people who laugh at suffering, who think they know everything, and who - even when presented with scientific evidence - will refute it and do whatever they can to make disabled people feel bad about themselves.  They don’t deserve a second of your time, and if they were geographically close enough, I’d throw a fucking plum at them. 

There’s comes a time when u have to say fuck off I don’t need ur opinion!!

I feel like crap (less crappy than previously, but still bad). I hate birth control pills. So much.

It did get the bleeding to manageable level. But now I’m getting more depressed and I throw up every morning.

Both of those things are more manageable than bleeding half to death. My blood levels are good now, and the fainting and dizziness has stopped.

But I could really do without the throwing up as soon as I wake up in the morning.

That def sounds like no fun. Have u tried the bc patch. Luv it no period but occasionally!

So. I’ve decided to give one of my characters a chronic illness. I think it’s a really good idea but idk which one.

The whole thing is, her and her friend are going to a concert and which forces her to come out about her illness.

What illness would be invisible in everyday life, but cause you trouble at a concert?

I know IBS could be one because of restroom trouble, but I also am exploring the option of giving her brain fog, and I’m not sure if people with IBS experience brain fog (I don’t, so idk). So I guess that’s a second question–can IBS alone cause brain fog?

I would love love love some help on this. Thank you ❤️

Fibromyalgia could def b one!

Such a cutie fam!

Mmmmm mm mmm! Dood!

Would be willing to reblog this if you deal with Chronic pain and/or identify as Spoonie?

I’m really struggling right now  and I just want to find folks like me to follow so I feel like less alone.  

I wish there was a dating app for people with chronic illnesses

I so agree someone on here is bound to know how to do an app or something that can locate other spoonies in ur area. This would b completely awesome!!

“It’s not me, it’s the FOG!”

My brain fog makes me appear so unintelligent. Just thinking of a simple word, or finishing a sentence, or remembering something that happened only a few hours ago is such a challenge. I wish that I could convince people that there is extensive knowledge in my brain.

It’s just trapped.

I am the tiredest in all the land

Trying to catch up from my daughters graduation then camping.

Hoes please listen up

I am the virgin friend of many hoes and since I can’t ho properly just yet I specialize in ho maintenance. I have an immense knowledge of skin and hair and let me tell you what you need to do to your body before you go and see your first draft pick, your geriatric sugar daddy, your main bitch’s father:

You need to set aside a day to wash your body. Have a full tank of hot water because me personally when I take a bath I take a shower too. I have taken two baths back to back when I’m ready to spa day which is probably why I do it like once every two years but anyways.

1. That pussy clean Fill your tub with water. Get a ½ a cup of apple cider vinegar and dump that shit in there. Sit in there. It’s gonna get your pH right. Also, naturally wash your ass. This is a good time to shave your legs… 2. Bust out the coconut oil Smear it on your legs. On your armpits. Shave em. I don’t advise shaving your na na with it because to be honest I had a bad experience in college and yeah. We’re gonna need another post for the real deal. 3. Use a scrub If you like that Dead Sea shit from the mall go ahead and use it. If you’re a natural bitch like myself prepare a mixture of brown sugar and coconut oil. And of course vanilla extract because bitch, you are sweet. Run that scrub on your legs. Your armpits. Elbows. Knees. For you thick girls your thighs. 4. Drain the toxins From your tub. Drain your tub. Rinse it. If you don’t have time get in the shower and proceed normally. If you got all day and a banging album play that shit, watch House of Cards, watch Snapped and fill that tub back up. 5. Bath salts Not the kind that people from Florida seem to really enjoy. Lavender is my favorite scent. Fill your tub up with hot water and throw those scented bath silts in there, put in that bubble bath and wash yourself. Sing to yourself. Love yourself. Figuratively. Or not I mean if you’re a ho you’re a ho. Sit in there until the water is warm and get out. 5. Some of you hoes are expensive ones and you wanna smear La Mer all over your body and you can go ahead but the best lotion I’ve ever had – I’ve tried every French, Swiss, Dutch, lotion on the market para my mother – is four dollars. Aveeno daily moisturizing lotion. Back when I was a sad ho my feet were so dry the caught on my sheets girl. I bought this shit when my lotion ran out and I forgot how good it was. I’m telling you my feet went back to being as soft as when I was born. No pedicure. I swear by it.

Bonus tips: If you have that dry skin in your toenails, put baby oil on it daily. They will be no more. If you’re thick and you have dark skin on the inside of your thighs rub coconut oil on it daily. If your man ain’t shit rub coconut oil on him daily. Prosper my hoes. Prosper.

Always reblog

This post won’t eva get old 😅

I’m crying omg

This is religious text. Bless

I will not beg you for your time or try to convince you to choose me, the world is too big and I have too much to offer.

concept: a late night rainstorm, you laying in bed listening to the sound of the rain snuggled up in the arms of the one you love most

What everybody truly wants & deserves! Who wants to b alone for the rest of our lives!

#justhavingfun😘

H.Rose ~ The Old Me (via @fightingfearnotpain)