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Hi! I'm Mads. I enjoy art, books, and terrible, terrible puns. Fandom crone ™ ✨ ART TAG ✨

saw a post abt HBO removing shows that suggests ppl just “burn dvds” but everyone doesnt know how to do that so here is one way to do that

- get blank dvds (Both +R or -R work, I think +R is slightly cheaper, the difference is rewritability), these are not very expensive for the amount you can get in bulk (if you are in the US 100 of them is about 30$ at walmart)

- an external DVD drive that plugs in via usb is also around 20-40$ (it tends to be closer to 20)

- download DVDFlick (free)

- if you don’t already have the mp4/mpeg of whatever media you want to burn, you can download movies/shows off of sites like gomovies.sx and soap2day

gomovies.sx will have a download button that looks like this

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below the video you can choose one of these

if you click streamlare for example and then the download button it will take you here where the mp4 is

(if you’re on an iphone/ipad, clicking download will save it to your files app)

- if you cant find the download button on soap2day you can also install a video downloader extension which will find the movie for you

- at this point you can drag and drop it into a google drive or keep it on your computer but if you still want it on dvd ->

- open dvd flick, drag and drop the video

- click “project settings”

- give it whatever title you want, you can change encoder to “normal” (default is below normal if you are doing other things on the computer). you dont need to change target size or thread count (unless you want to)

- insert a blank dvd into your drive, make sure you click “burn project to disc”

- click accept then click “create dvd” next to menu and project settings. it will create a destination folder and this dialogue box will pop up when you click “create” on more dvds, just click “yes” and then “okay” on the box that appears after it

it’ll take a couple hours, once its done take a sharpie & write whats on it and stick it in a case . or dont . im not ur mom

🔫 check the notes for my replies i am no longer asking 🔫

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For downloading, if your computer came with RealPlayer, you should be careful not to use the plug-in that let's you download from YouTube, and not to use the built in converter that let's you change the file to your preferred format. Honest.

Just a PSA that tumblr monitors our messages for explicit content.

I cannot see anywhere in the guidelines that states messages, only posts. Is that even allowed?

This email is a reply from my appeal, but even the termination email doesn’t state it.

signal boosting

this obviously sucks and is worth being upset about, but also reminder to treat any unencrypted online communication as being subject to monitoring by both corporations and the state.

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Good question:

In the United States, many jails and prisons can and will charge you money for every single night that you spend imprisoned, for the entire duration of your incarceration, as if you were being billed for staying at a hotel. Even if you are incarcerated for years. Adding up to tens of thousands of dollars. What happens when you’re released?

In response to this:

So.

You’re getting charged, like, ten dollars every time you even submit a request form to possibly be seen by a doctor or dentist.

You’re getting charged maybe five dollars for ten minutes on the phone.

Any time a friend or family tries to send you like five dollars so that you can buy some toothpaste or lotion, or maybe a snack from the commissary since you’re diabetic and the “meals” have left you malnourished, maybe half of that money gets taken as a “service fee” by the corporate contractor that the prison uses to manage your pre-paid debit card. So you’re already losing money every day just by being there.

What happens if you can’t pay?

In some places, after serving just a couple of years for drugs charges, almost 20 years after being released, the state can still hunt you down for over $80,000 that you “owe” as if it were a per-night room-and-board accommodations charge, like this recent highly-publicized case in Connecticut:

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Two decades after her release from prison, [TB] feels she is still being punished. When her mother died two years ago, the state of Connecticut put a lien on the Stamford home she and her siblings inherited. It said she owed $83,762 to cover the cost of her 2 ½ year imprisonment for drug crimes. […] “I’m about to be homeless,” said [TB], 58, who in March [2022] became the lead plaintiff in a lawsuit challenging the state law that charges prisoners $249 a day for the cost of their incarceration. […] All but two states have so-called “pay-to-stay” laws that make prisoners pay for their time behind bars […]. Critics say it’s an unfair second penalty that hinders rehabilitation by putting former inmates in debt for life. Efforts have been underway in some places to scale back or eliminate such policies. Two states — Illinois and New Hampshire — have repealed their laws since 2019. […] Pay-to-stay laws were put into place in many areas during the tough-on-crime era of the 1980s and ’90s, said Brittany Friedman, an assistant professor of sociology at University of Southern California who is leading a study of the practice. […] Connecticut used to collect prison debt by attaching an automatic lien to every inmate, claiming half of any financial windfall they might receive for up to 20 years after they are released from prison […].

Text by: Pat Eaton-Robb. “At $249 per day, prison stays leave ex-inmates deep in debt.” AP News / The Associated Press. 27 August 2022.

Look at this:

To help her son, Cindy started depositing between $50 to $100 a week into Matthew’s account, money he could use to buy food from the prison commissary, such as packaged ramen noodles, cookies, or peanut butter and jelly to make sandwiches. Cindy said sending that money wasn’t necessarily an expense she could afford. “No one can,” she said. So far in the past month, she estimates she sent Matthew close to $300. But in reality, he only received half of that amount. The balance goes straight to the prison to pay off the $1,000 in “rent” that the prison charged Matthew for his prior incarceration. […] A PA Post examination of six county budgets (Crawford, Dauphin, Lebanon, Lehigh, Venango and Indiana) showed that those counties’ prisons have collected more than $15 million from inmates — almost half is for daily room and board fees that are meant to cover at least a portion of the costs with housing and food. Prisoners who don’t work are still expected to pay. If they don’t, their bills are sent to collections agencies, which can report the debts to credit bureaus. […] Between 2014 and 2017, the Indiana County Prison — which has an average inmate population of 87 people — collected nearly $3 million from its prisoners. In the past five years, Lebanon’s jail collected just over $2 million in housing and processing fees.

Text by: Joseph Darius Jaafari. “Paying rent to your jailers: Inmates are billed millions of dollars for their stays in Pa. prisons.” WHYY (PBS). 10 December 2019. Originally published at PA Post.

Pay-to-stay, the practice of charging people to pay for their own jail or prison confinement, is being enforced unfairly by using criminal, civil and administrative law, according to a new Rutgers University-New Brunswick led study. The study […] finds that charging pay-to-stay fees is triggered by criminal justice contact but possible due to the co-opting of civil and administrative institutions, like social service agencies and state treasuries that oversee benefits, which are outside the realm of criminal justice. “A person can be charged $20 to $80 a day for their incarceration,” said author Brittany Friedman, an assistant professor of sociology and a faculty affiliate of Rutgers’ criminal justice program. “That per diem rate can lead to hundreds of thousands of dollars in fees when a person gets out of prison. To recoup fees, states use civil means such as lawsuits and wage garnishment against currently and formerly incarcerated people, and regularly use administrative means such as seizing employment pensions, tax refunds and public benefits to satisfy the debt.” […] Civil penalties are enacted on family members if the defendant cannot pay and in states such as Florida, Nevada and Idaho can occur even after the original defendant is deceased. […]

Text by: Megan Schumann. “States Unfairly Burdening Incarcerated People With “Pay-to-Stay” Fees.” Rutgers press release. 20 November 2020.

So, to pay for your own imprisonment, states can:

– hunt you down for decades (track you down 20 years later, charge you tens of thousands of dollars, and take your house away)

– put a lien on your vehicle, house

– garnish your paycheck/wages

– seize your tax refund

– send collections agencies after you

– take your public assistance benefits

– sue you in civil court

– take money from your family even after you’re dead

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This is beyond demented.

People paying to be punished?!

Seriously, how did anyone agree to let the USA be part of the advanced countries club

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the downside of following a bunch of people with impeccable taste who are all mutuals is that sometimes a Good Post will enter the ecosystem and you will have to scroll past it eight bajillion times for the next three days

Several toys originally made for “Return of the Jedi” were re-used in 1991 for the “Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves” toy line, like the Ewok Village. The Gamorrean Pigman figure was modified to become Friar Tuck. 

what fantasy books that excise homophobia and transphobia from their fantastical societies actually accomplish is to strip the queer people inside of them of what it takes to survive in a queerphobic world— a state of being that takes continual and considerable strength and resolve to withstand for any period of time. being queer in a queerphobic world that must leverage multiple axises of oppression against queer people means withstanding constant and bitter attacks against everything you are and everything you are purported to represent every single day. withstanding queerphobia impacts and inculcates and changes a person’s character in ways that straight culture finds difficult to track and describe (much less care about), but if someone goes through all of that and still decides to be queer, that person has achieved a level of personal integrity that will stay with them for the rest of their lives.

why would you rob your fantasy worlds of all that context and power? what on earth could you possibly replace it with that would mean as much?

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pain is not a virtue, though? there is no glory in suffering. it does not make you stronger, or better, it just hurts, and often, it kills. I realize most of tumblr is American, and we are a country built on puritanical ideals, but if your vision of queerness is all about rejecting society as it stands, consider leaving behind the assumption that oppression inherently creates integrity.

And in a fictional universe, where I can change anything I want? Ursula LeGuin called out artists for their “refusal to admit the banality of evil and the terrible boredom of pain,” and the unthinking recreation of reality’s cruelty is, well. boring.

I’m not saying every execution of a world without queerphobia is well done! but there is nothing wrong with enjoying the fantasy of a world that accepts and loves us for who we are. Even if you want your characters to be outcast and rejected, there are other ways to give that to your characters without making them deal with the same boring shit we live every day.

That’s fair actually, I’d like to change my word choice.

Queerphobia has a complex and profound effect on queer people that impacts their core drives and personalities in ways straight people mostly can’t imagine. this makes them have levels and layers to who they are as a person in ways that can be sad but which aren’t always as wholly negative and disempowering and tragic as you described, and which does put them on a level apart from straight people. Being exposed to queerphobia makes us different from straight people, often in hugely positive and interesting and heroic ways, but yes, also in tragic ways like you just described. See also: including queerphobia does not mean a character is automatically “outcast and rejected,” especially since queer people are so good at demanding our rights and making worlds that hate us tolerate our presence and changing the legal systems that want us dead and disappeared against their will.

Are you sure you want to erase all that?

Are all of the interesting and powerful and actionable responses to queerphobia you’ve seen from queer people you know and love really so “boring”? Are all of them sad and tragic? Have there been some that were funny or interesting or heroic?

Do you think there’s any kind of a flattening effect that erases the differences between straight people and queer people when you take out one of the major forces that shapes who we are and the roles we occupy in our cultures? do you think that flattening effect is worth it?

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I appreciate your thoughtful response! And mine in turn is - I also never said (or did not intend to say) a fantasy where queerphobia remains is inherently bad. If you want to write a story where your protagonists are shaped by queerphobia, you should. Honestly, more fantasy stories with queers, full stop. I was reacting to your original all-or-nothing phrasing, that a story imagining a world without queerphobia was inherently less, inherently worse.

Because I actually think my trans friends would be DELIGHTED if they could live in a world where they simply never had to worry about being hate crimed just for walking down the street.

When queer people bloom in the face of adversity, I do not credit the adversity. When queer people are funny, and clever, and brilliant, and create beautiful art in reaction to the hatred of the world, I admire it, but I also think ... what could they have done, if they DIDN’T have to deal with all that? What could they have made, in a world that loved them? I know it’s trendy to hate on Hannah Gadsby right now, but to paraphrase Nanette - we don’t have the Sunflowers because Van Gogh suffered, we have them because he was loved.

I do not imagine a world without queerphobia as one where our differences have been flattened and erased, but one where our differences are embraced and allowed to flourish - to everyone’s benefit.

I appreciate yours!

to continue the thought experiment:

what do you feel when you think about a world without the contributions of the queer people from history you love most and the aspects of queer culture that mean the most to you? no butch/femme, no ball culture, no AIDS quilt, no Stonewall, nobody throwing ashes on the whitehouse lawn, nobody inflating a giant condom on jesse helms’s house, nobody slamming a pie into anita bryant’s face, and nobody with the life experience of the butches and dykes and faggots and trannies and leather daddies and high priestesses you know the names of and remember and love.

like, for me, I suddenly feel overwhelming horror and betrayal and loss, like I’m sinking into a deep dark bog with no air and no light and no memory and no history and no culture and no friends or family.

does it not do that to you?

I have to use a dictation service and don’t have the ability to go further in depth with this right now to the extent that the posters above me have. So please excuse that.

But this post makes me want to point out some thing that makes me currently feel very alienated and dis interested in a lot of queer identity And culture these days: So much of the fighting that has had to happen in order to defend ourselves from queer phobia is now confused with the identity of queerness itself. To the point that many people think that without it one Is not fully embracing their identity.

The reason this bothers me is because I came to a point where my identity rests in what my identity was before my people were colonized. I come from multiple indigenous lineages all of whom has space and names and rolls in their communities for various non-cis non-het people.

To propose that there is no meaningful queer identity without aspects of the culture that are specifically postcolonial and specifically in response to aggressions that were invented against us as a result of colonization is to me limiting and absurd, especially in the context of building a fantasy novel or world.

It is absurd to me that there should be some problem in someone building a world where queer phobia did not exist, Because that world existed before my people were colonized.

pitch perfect refutation, exactly correct.

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My TotK was supposed to arrive today, when this fanart was finished, but.. I was wrong. I will enter the time machine and open my eyes in tomorrow (sleep), to speed up my ToTK arrival.

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I’m afraid you guys are bored with my LU fanart which is too focused on the Downfall Duo, so I draw them all. Hope you like it!

Pretend, for example, that you were born in Chicago and have never had the remotest desire to visit Hong Kong, which is only a name on a map for you; pretend that some convulsion, sometimes called accident, throws you into connection with a man or a woman who lives in Hong Kong; and that you fall in love. Hong Kong will immediately cease to be a name and become the center of your life. And you may never know how many people live in Hong Kong. But you will know that one man or one woman lives there without whom you cannot live. And this is how our lives are changed, and this is how we are redeemed.

What a journey this life is! Dependent, entirely, on things unseen. If your lover lives in Hong Kong and cannot get to Chicago, it will be necessary for you to go to Hong Kong. Perhaps you will spend your life there, and never see Chicago again. And you will, I assure you, as long as space and time divide you from anyone you love, discover a great deal about shipping routes, airlines, earth quake, famine, disease, and war. And you will always know what time it is in Hong Kong, for you love someone who lives there. And love will simply have no choice but to go into battle with space and time and, furthermore, to win.

—James Baldwin, The Price of the Ticket

One of my greatest inspirations as a writer is the late great LA Times food reviewer Jonathan Gold. I legitimately think he should be considered one of the best writers of the last 100 years. Look at this.

Poetry. Non-fiction par excellence. This is a man who not only understood the visceral, the sensory, the sublime, but he could put it into words.

He was the opposite of a snob. The man ventured where other reviewers feared to tread. He would visit any greasy taco shack or tacky theme restaurant that caught his eye and detail it with romance befitting a Victorian poet. I have such admiration for his ability to find the beauty, the indulgence, the love, in places you would never expect to find it.

Just looked him up and he looks like how I imagine Dionysus

Truly a Dionysian man