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he/they | 21 | i cry over mcr | frank girlie

Asexuals were always part of pride and it really fucking shows when people think it's a recent term.

Although not going by the term "asexual" yet, asexuality was spoken about alongside homosexuality as far back as the 1890s. Asexual history is just as vital to queer history as any other term and I'm so tired of watching us being treated like a new thing

This image is so so fucking important to me

Reblog this, cowards

people who write on their phones (word mobile, gdocs app, scrivener mobile, notesapp, etc) how does it feel to be taunting god every single day

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sorry op to add text to your post but uhhhh i got into a bad habit of texting myself when I had inspo and this is my warning to Not Do That because sometimes you might click the wrong conversation half asleep and that’s how you get awkward conversations like this:

don't apologize, this is gold

[Image ID: Text message conversation. Blue: The mother sends her three children into the forest one by one and one by one they return with flowers blooming from their skin. White: What /End ID]

idk what traumatized or mentally ill person needs to hear this but dreams (especially the really disturbing ones you dont want to talk about to anybody) arent some deep peek into your psyche or a sign of your True Desires or whatever theyre quite literally your brain making fruit salad with whatever it can find on the shelf. just putting all that shit in a blender and hitting obliterate. its fine, youre fine, youre not a weirdo for it

Actually forget what I said. This dream is more important than anything

sorry i keep rambling about this it's 1am. but like. i really dislike how much the internet pushes talk therapy as the solution to all mental health issues. like. for some people, therapy and medication is necessary and that's okay. and for a lot of other people, support is necessary to get better, and therapy is an way to recieve that support. but it's not the only way, or the most practical way for a lot of people. some just need acceptance and a listening ear. and isn't it cold to tell them that's something they should only ask for in the context of a transaction with a professional? i don't know. i'm not an expert. i'm lucky enough to not have had to pay thousands for my therapy. but i do know people need community. guidance. love. and they shouldn't have to pay for it.

I feel like we don’t talk enough about how having chronic illness and/or chronic pain makes you irritable. It makes you grumpy. It can make you a not very fun person to be around. 

We don’t talk enough about the ugly sides of chronic illness/pain. The parts where you feel like a bad person not because of the pain in of itself but because everyone else thinks you are pushing them away. The times when you don’t bear it like a saint and the roughest edges of your personality come out. Where maybe you do hurt other people’s feelings. Its a complicated side of the experience thats resists an easy answer.