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Misogyny makes me go apeshit

@vulvalcartographer

Lesbian, Eastern European, Slavic as fuck, I get pissed off easily and quickly

when men are single and lonely it’s declared a male loneliness epidemic, deemed a mental health crisis, and women must address it by fully submitting to men who hate them and want to hurt them.

when women are single and lonely they’re labeled crazy cat ladies and bitter man-hating hags with no worth as people. men are not expected to take any responsibility for the fact that women are scared to date them.

stop calling it the male loneliness epidemic and start calling it what it is: the epidemic of men being undateable porn addicts who don’t view women as human beings and are incapable of acknowledging the very real fears that their female peers have around being in romantic/sexual relationships with them

Exhibit 2043

Morherfucker she's NINE. Kill yourself

to say that this man has the emotional intelligence of a wet carrot would be to insult carrots. how is it that he has somehow managed to get someone to marry him and have a child with him when he is this level of fucking soulless sociopath? this poor girl deserves a fucking medal for teaching herself to code at AGE 9 and having to put up with this prick for a father.

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i love princess programmer and id love to play her awesome games made on C++!!! this man doesn't deserve his impressive genius daughter

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Girls are doing better then boys so men want to ban women from education. And even do it the Taliban way

"Women enter university for mating purposes" entirely untrue and unfounded claim. Men aren't scared of / hurt by female-dominated spaces, they just hate women's presence in higher fields because they believe women must always be subordinate to men in some way.

Anyways, the more women enter education and higher fields, the better we do at them. We're already seeing this in medicine, where female physicians outperform male ones and are more effective in saving patients' lives. Men are realising that they're not as superior as they thought and are fighting to keep the hierarchy in place.

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"Matting purposes"

She wants a double mat with museum grade glass, please. She wants to splurge since its for the display of her PhD.

Also insane considering studies show that men actually benefit from learning in mixed spaces while women learn better in single sex environments. Funny how they don't even postulate for separating the sexes but from banning women all together. I assume women would be outperforming men even more if we had consistent single sex learning environments all the way up to phd levels.

I would actually love to read some studies about why women are outperforming men so much even though we are still operating in hostile environments. I have my thoughts and theories but would love to see someone smarter talk about it.

You know those movies about those little nerd boys who get with really hot girls, and those girls eventually learn to settle for a little nerd boy because he’s kinda nice sometimes? Propaganda.

i am totally going to come across as a boomer in this post but as an engineer it's common sense to not build systems with a single point of failure. and i'm starting to realize that our usage of the smart phone is exactly that. a single point of failure. the calling/texting is the implied function of the smartphone, which is fine. that's what it's built for. but nowadays we don't think to keep a physical map or atlas or gps unit in our car because our phone has google maps. we don't keep address books anymore because it's all stored in our contacts. i serve customers who no longer carry a wallet/physical card because it's all on their phone. this is literally a single point of failure. if you lose or break your phone when you are in a foreign place you are fucking screwed. maybe you're still screwed even in your home town because so many people have become accustomed to using a smart phone to take them anywhere.

Lock him in the attic

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he WILLINGLY made his own baby sick. divorce his disgusting immature ass what the fuck ??

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What kind of man does this? One that doesn’t care about you or your baby. A 3 month old has a delicate immune system and they’re not fully vaccinated. What could start as a cold could absolutely turn fatal for an infant! That is a new born baby! What kind of grown man has sleepovers with his friends? Maybe he should go move in. Men literally hate you. Of course he’s not taking care of her or his child. Literal scum.

isn’t this literally assault? deliberately smearing bodily fluids on someone is assault right because you should assume all bodily fluids contain pathogens and he did this KNOWING HE IS ILL

they really think being a woman is based on how attractive you are huh.

specifically how well you perform femininity. because kathleen stock is not exactly ugly.

‘this woman is a lesbian with short hair so she must actually be a man’ wow how progressive

"This horrific creature has failed in her duty to non-manhood to apply three inches of makeup every morning to spare the public from gazing at her revolting countenance. This is obviously a Man, there's only one way to be a woman and that's not... whatever this is ..."

"i hate this woman so much i wish she at least pretended to be a man"

So to give some context to this, the original Reddit thread was NOT about Kathleen. It was a FTM detransitioner. They later brought up Kathleen as an example of a “self denying FTM”. Just wanted to put out there the woman they are also ragging on is a detransitioner

Gender ideology has always been about compliance.

In discussions and media about feminism, we really need to stop portraying it as, "You can't be fat, you can't be ugly, you can't be weird! Women always exist within double standards!" and more as, "We are sold into sex slavery worldwide, either as prostitutes or wives. Our biggest predator is men, especially the ones closest to us, as they are more likely to molest, rape, beat, and murder us than anyone else. We do not have complete freedom and power over how we use our reproductive organs - in fact, the female body is so understudied and stigmatized that we often live our lives in pain and die from related issues such as ovarian cancer and childbirth. Men own and control the majority of the world's resources, land, and money, but women do more than half of worldwide labor alongside the care of their own homes and family members, remaining destitute. Even if women do not participate in wars as soldiers, we are still trafficked, raped, and killed by men on all sides during it. Our political power is extremely limited, and is still taken as a threat, even though we are the majority. The hate of women is practiced in these ways every single day."

Omg such a good idea....

i do this exact same thing and i can get 10 pages (~3000) words done in a day, another tip that helps is having all your quotes formatted and cited properly so u can just copy and paste them into your document. but yeah this really works lol this is how i got 50 pages of research and 20 pages of my thesis written over march break 🤠

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I make all the figures first. Once you've sat with the data and played with how to display it, writing the results comes easier. But the best way to write a scientific document is to do this order: materials and methods, then results, then discussion, then introduction. Abstract is always last. You probably read the relevant literature when devising the study and you have to check again to see if anyone recently published something relevant anyway, so starting with an intro isn't terribly helpful. This way it goes from easiest to hardest thing. Materials and methods is literally just a list of what you did (and it gets relegated to the back of most articles these days), results is the next easiest and you use your list of figures and describe them, and then discussion. Introduction is way easier after that.

Here are three other things that helped me a lot.

I was always a slow writer because I always started my essay on a blank page with no prepped writing, and I always had to write it “perfectly” the first time. So I’d essentially get writers block. So here are my additional tips:

- Write a detailed outline. This takes the pressure off creating the flow of your essay while you’re actually writing it, and sometimes you’ll have a sentence or two in your outline that you’ll read again when you’re actually writing and be like “damn I’m glad I wrote that down when I did”. I also write my essay directly above my outline and delete the outline as I go because it was easier to motivate myself in the beginning when I was working on a document that was already X pages long.

- I color code the highlights in my research. One for themes/ideas, one for data/conclusions, one for quotes, and one for things I would criticize. This way in my outline I write like “use red Levinson (1987) quote” and find it quicker, and it’s a little easier to remember why you highlighted that quote in the first place. This could also be used in conjunction with the Junkyard Document.

- This is more just basic editing technique but if I find myself getting stuck on a sentence I will just bracket it off as [connect these somehow] or [write transition sentence] and move on. But I found this happened less the more detailed my outline was.

Happy writing!

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I want to expand on my thoughts about the military and feminism, I didn't have time to do this earlier but I have some now. I also want to clarify that I don't want to contribute to harassment directed to any user on here. I just want to give my thoughts because, as a Women studies and Holocaust studies major, I've read a lot on the matter, and because I think it's a shame that we, Western feminists, don't discuss this topic more, even though women in Ukraine, Africa and the Middle East are being harmed by male soldiers right now.

To me, violence against women is one of the core tenants of the military. You can't separate the military from violence against women. Susan Brownmiller, a radical feminist who pioneered the concept of rape culture, was the first to study rape as a tool of male violence. In her book Against Our Will, she dedicated a full chapter to the army, in which she writes:

War provides men with the perfect psychologic backdrop to give vent to their contempt for women. The very maleness of the military—the brute power of weaponry exclusive to their hands, the spiritual bonding of men at arms, the manly discipline of orders given and orders obeyed, the simple logic of the hierarchical command—confirms for men what they long suspect, that women are peripheral, irrelevant to the world that counts, passive spectators to the action in the center ring.

She shows that sexual violence towards women has always accompanied battles. The heroes of the Iliad raped Trojan women. The Romans held the rape of the Sabine women as a founding myth. Military rape left traces in archives: the Crusades, the sack of Constantinople in 1204, the Hundred Years War, the French Wars of Religion. German soldiers raped French women during WWI, and French soldiers raped Rhenan women while occupying the region in the 1920s.

In all those instances, women from marginalized communities were particularly vulnerable. Jewish women were among the first victims of rape during the Crusades.

In another book, Women and Genocide (2018), a collective of feminist historians and sociologists showed that sexual violence is a core tenant of the military during total wars, genocide and in colonial settings. From this book we can see that military sexual violence falls into three categories:

(1) rapes committed against indigenous women, which serves as a symbolic taking of the land they inhabit by the invading army (see America, Namibia)

(2) rapes committed in a process of biological absorption (see Armenia): Armenian women were raped by Turkish soldiers to destroy their sense of Armenian identity and 'absorb' them and their offspring in the Turkish nation

(3) measures intended to attack women's reproductive abilities through forced sterilization (see Roma)

But in all three cases, sexual violence always serves two main purposes:

(1) sexual violence dismantles the family unit because women are most often cast out of their group after having been assaulted; it is a symbolic humiliation of the men of the victimized group, who (in patriarchal societies) are supposed to take care and protect "their" women (seen, in a sexist way, as private property); the group is therefore less likely to propose organized resistance

(2) at the same time, sexual violence against women reinforces male solidarity. Quoting:

Guatemalan soldiers were trained to think of gang rape as a bonding exercise among the troops as well as an effective weapon for the extermination of the civilian enemy. Because the troops were not being directed to engage an armed insurgency, but rather to annihilate villages and terrorize civilian communities, the army needed to dehumanize the soldiers as well as their intended victims. The Counterinsurgency War Manual (Manual de Guerra Contrainsurgente) states: “The soldier, normally has great aversion toward police-type operations and repressive measures against women, children, and sick civilians, unless he is extremely well indoctrinated in the necessity of these operations.”30 One survivor testified to the truth commission: “There were always rapes inside the army bases . . . sometimes by [soldier’s] choice, other times by order [from superiors]. They would say: ‘We have to break the asses of these whores’ or even worse things.”

In that sense, the military - all military - is a manufacture of male domination. It institutionalizes sexual violence against women, weaponized to reinforce male domination and male solidarity.

In Against Our Will, Susan Brownmiller studied the phenomenon of gang rapes. She showed that male-only groups dominated by a strong leader creates the conditions to push any man, even the ones you'd think "inoffensive", to commit sexual violence: ""Sharing the girl among us fellows" strengthens the notion of group masculinity and power." You could say the same about the military.

You can say, "not all wars are like that", but yes, they are. Total war is a characteristic of modernity. Colonial wars and invasions are still a recurring thing.

You can say, "not all soldiers rape", and that is true, but all soldiers contribute to fostering a virilist environment in which rape is endemic. The ones who turn a blind eye, the ones who remain silent and protect their male buddies, the ones who make sexist remarks (and we have so many testimonies of female soldiers who experienced sexism in the military to know that most of these men are overtly sexist) contribute to rape culture. Not all the soldiers involved in the Al-Mahmudiyah killings raped 14yo Abeer Qassim Hamza al-Janabi; one of them decided to stay in his post and did nothing while his mates were planning to rape and kill her. He is still complicit.

There's a reason feminists have historically been involved in peace movements: it's because women are always the first victims of war. Today, you have feminist organizations like Not a Weapon of War working to help female victims of war rape; you have feminists raising awareness about Ukrainian women being raped and trafficked. To me, being a radical feminist is being anti-military: the military relies on sexual violence and on the perpetuation of male domination. It wouldn't exist without it. As radical feminists, we have to address the roots of female oppression and fight to destroy the institutions perpetuating it. The military is the first on the list. As a Western feminist, it is also particularly important that we support women from the Global South and women living in Ukraine and in the Balkans (who are still dealing with trauma from the Yugoslav wars) by opposing the military.

if the one you love tells you, in a sexual setting: "you can do anything you want with me", and your response is to hurt her, you do not love her. that's it, that is the only thing. if you truly love someone, you don't look for permission or consent to harm her. if she is your beloved, you simply do not wish any hurt to befall her, and if you do, i implore you to question why you think that love can exist alongside a desire to hurt that person. if you orgasm when hearing your partner weep from pain - pain YOU inflicted nonetheless - how is that love? how can anyone ever call such a thing love?

This is actually how I came to conceptualise that asking for sexual partners to hurt me was wrong. Thinking about if the roles were reversed- would I want to hurt them? Of course not. Why were they ok with hurting me? And who taught me to ask for that?

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this man just told me he knows deep down he is paying prostitutes to pretend but „in the moment you’re horny and the blood rushes from your head to your dick and there‘s none left in your head“ like okay maybe you should be neutered instead of being allowed to buy sex idk

no exactly.

this is why fathers are so critical of their daughters boyfriends. why many parents dont like their daughters dating at all.

men saying shit like „what am i supposed to do, not look?“ when they stare and make women uncomfortable or even hit on them.

why victim blaming exists: the poor man couldnt resist but to harrass/assault the woman because of her outfit, her mannerisms etc.

why there are terms like „siren“, „seductress/temptress“ or „homewrecker“ (which usually refers to women): the poor man (again) couldn’t possibly resist.

the whole debate about girls wearing clothes that reveal their shoulders or legs in school which makes even grown men lose it so theyre not allowed to. most arguments for modest clothing and things like veiling etc come from the same vein: you have to hide from men because they cant help themselves.

one of the main arguments for prostitution is in fact that men are just insatiable sexual beings who need and deserve gratification - so they need access to sex at all time.

what is this if not painting men as animals who cant help themselves when they feel a sexual urge?

many men cannot deal with not acting on attraction. they just have to try, have to „have her“. if they cant they get aggressive or watch porn with women who look like the one who refused them. this is why violent porn is so popular: men like to imagine themselves humiliating and dehumanising the women they cant get.

in fact the same guy from the original post, when i asked him why he goes to prostitutes in the first place, said „well theyre hot and you usually dont get to be with a woman like that“ and i was like have you considered just enjoying the view and only having sex with women who desire you? and it was like mindblowing for him to suggest that not every attraction has to be acted on.

“For the kink community to feel okay about itself, it needs us to believe that there exists out there a huge number of men who are deeply, passionately, personally opposed to sexual violence and also super aroused pretending to rape and beat bound women. Sorry, not buying it.”

THIS. THIS IS THE POST THAT ALL BDSM PEOPLE NEED TO READ.

One of the worst things liberal “feminism” has achieved is convincing millions of women that there is nothing wrong with men who are aroused by violence. Because of this, many women have not only lowered their guards and ignored the warning signs of a deeply unwell and twisted man, but also are coerced into engaging in violent and degrading sex acts that they are brainwashed to believe are part of a normal and loving relationship. BDSM is sexual violence. BDSM IS violence.

The predators that control liberal media outlets target you with imagery and shows that promote “kink”, because simply speaking, you are the prey.