Sexualities and genders influenced by trauma are no less valid than those that aren’t.

I needed this message when I was 8 tbh.

this is so great. i never see body positivity for hairy girls. just girls who don’t shave and therefor call themselves “hairy” when they’re bald in comparison to girls who actually have an “abnormal quantity” of hair which always makes me roll my eyes

for you 💗

shout out to the kids that are compulsive liars because that was the only way to stay safe at home

shout out to the kids that have trouble expressing themselves because they were punished every time they were upset

shout out to the kids that question everyone’s intentions with them because they associate everything with their past abuse

shout out to the kids that can’t get rid of all the Unhealthy and Bad™ coping mechanisms they picked up at home

shout out to the kids that still feel love and affection for their abuser(s)

shout out to the kids that will never be well-adjusted and are okay with that

shout out to those of us that don’t fit the Good Abuse Survivor model; our experiences are real and no one has the right to tell us how to react to abuse. i love you all a lot and know that you are never alone 💜

This hits home too hard on every single one.

never forget that you’re valid

You’re on tumblr who do you think you’re educating?

The people who keep asking me if “I would date a bisexual”. The people make posts saying that bisexuals in “straight relationships” are no longer welcome in the community. The people who ask me if I want to have a threesome. The girls who stop talking to me when they find out I’m also into guys. The people who tell me that I’m just a “lesbian who can’t admit it yet”

This is for the 14 year old girls who are confused because they are attracted to more than one gender and don’t know if that’s right. This is for the 17 year old boy who keeps hearing that “boys can’t be bi”. For the boys who keep hearing they’re just closeted gays. For the 30 year old women who suddenly realize they’re not as straight as they thought. For the people who constantly have to put up with bisexual stereotypes being thrown at them.

Shoutout to my trans brothers who have large breasts. You are just as valid with a size DD as you are when you bind. You are all handsome kings, carry on.

an unstable identity doesn’t make you any less valid

daily self care checklist ft. emojis 💖

Regardless of your stage Or of your gender expression YOUR IDENTITY IS VALID! SWO 2016

requested by robotav

[drawing of an orange shark saying “It’s okay to be proud of yourself even when others aren’t proud of you.” in a blue speech bubble.]

PSA PSA PSA PSA PSA PSA

Your validity as a trans person is not measured by how well you pass. 

s/o to trans girls 

You are absolutely unstoppable. 

Clear your mind here

REMINDER

asexuals are accepted at most major retailers

sexuality and gender is hella confusing so if you’re still figuring yours out its fine