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i want to be mysterious but like in a cute way. i want people to know i’m kind and gentle, but at the same time i want to wear a long black coat and want people to look at me and whisper to each other “nobody knows anything about this woman. she lives alone and doesn’t talk much. stay away from her” but then mothers would bring their sick children to me so i could heal them with my mysterious cryptic healing powers because i am the witch of the town.
Sometimes the small pleasures hit different. A clean house, a hot drink, making something from scratch, sitting on the porch with a loved one. Little soul-feeding activities.
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he can do a small thing that bothers me and i’ll turn into them for 3 weeks
I never prepared myself for making it this far and now I have to pretend to be an adult in a world which has me stuck feeling like a scared child.
You don’t need to be physically and emotionally available 24/7. Sometimes it’s okay to just be.
i think the worst part about having bpd is being reliant on another person for your happiness. it’s not their job or responsibility and it’s not fair to put it on them, but it’s like every time they don’t talk to me, every message left on seen, every lackluster reply, anytime i can’t tell whether or not they really love me tears me apart. i’m constantly afraid anytime not spent with me is spent talking about me even after they’ve assured me they aren’t. whenever they’re not with me i’m left with this empty feeling of anxiety and helplessness i can’t escape even through sleep.
it’s exhausting.
Reminder that if you think people with autism and/or ADHD aren't capable of practicing witchcraft or magic of any kind, you're an ableist and can not so kindly fuck out of the magical community.
you’re not a burden for being negative some days, for being anxious, for being sad, for being upset
Me, A Witch, On Every Major Holiday: Oh hey yeah there’s a thing today
Me, A Witch, The Day After Every Major Holiday: FUCK
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A blessed Solstice to all who observe it. May the next season bring you peace and fulfillment. May the gods you follow hear your prayers, and if you follow none, may you find wisdom within yourself to light your way through the darkest of times.
say it with me. your trauma is valid even if:
- the ones who hurt you were/are traumatized individuals.
- you are/appear functional.
- it was not caused by a romantic partner or family member.
- “it could have been avoided”.
- no one knows about it.
- “it’s not that bad”
- other people had it worse.
- someone went through the same experience and does not feel debilitated by it.
- it occurred a long time ago / you feel just fine now.
- the ones who hurt you have apologized.
be gentle with yourself today, folks. feel free to add.
“Promise me not to hide yourself when you’re in pain, it’s unfair that we laughed together but you cried alone”
— Unknown
sending love to people who have multiple eating disorders, or who have an eating disorder that is complex in nature.
you deserve to recover, even if your symptoms are atypical. even if you’re worried that it’s not bad enough, or that it “doesn’t count”. you deserve to find a way through this.
Don’t flirt with me bc then I’m gonna start fantasizing about us fucking every day