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Jessie , 24 ,BI

Good morning! I’m salty.

I think we, as a general community, need to start taking this little moment more seriously.

This, right here? This is asking for consent. It’s a legal necessity, yes, but it is also you, the reader, actively consenting to see adult content; and in doing so, saying that you are of an age to see it, and that you’re emotionally capable of handling it.

You find the content you find behind this warning disgusting, horrifying, upsetting, triggering? You consented. You said you could handle it, and you were able to back out at any time. You take responsibility for yourself when you click through this, and so long as the creator used warnings and tags correctly, you bear full responsibility for its impact on you.

“Children are going to lie about their age” is probably true, but that’s the problem of them and the people who are responsible for them, not the people that they lie to.

If you’re not prepared to see adult content, created by and for adults, don’t fucking click through this. And if you do, for all that’s holy, don’t blame anyone else for it.

This needs to be reblogged today.

Consenting to see adult content doesn’t mean you should have to see a bunch of shit romanticizing incest and pedophilia you walnut

Except this is the last line of consent before the actual work. So if you’re at this button you have already done the following:

1) chosen to go onto AO3 in the first place

2) chosen the fandom you wish to read about

3) had the chance to filter for the things you do want to see like a specific pairing or a specific AU

4) had the chance to specifically filter out any tags you don’t want to see like, oh I don’t know, incest and non-con and dub-con and paedophilia

5) had the chance to set the rating level if you wish to remove any explicit content at all

6) have read the summary of the story, which aren’t always great but are the only indicator of what the story will be like writing wise so something about it was good enough for you to click on it.

7) have read the tags of the story which will tell you what is actually in the story. If you have used filters to remove stories with things you don’t want then there shouldn’t be anything in here that’s a shock to you but maybe there is. That’s why the tags are there for you to check for yourself.

8) Then you have to actually click on the story. You cannot see anything other than the summary or the tags without personally deciding that you are going to open and read this story.

9) Only here, at step number nine, do you get to the adult content warning pictured above. You have been through eight different steps, the last six of which have also been opportunities for you to see that this has adult content. And AO3 has *STILL* stopped you to ask one last time “are you sure you want to read this because it has things that only adults should see in it”.

If after this point you are reading incest and paedophilia then it’s probably because you specifically went looking for it.

You walnut.

This is the most beautiful thing that I have seen about ao3

Transphobia is so antithetical to genuine feminism it blows my mind there's such a wide overlap like you either believe in autonomy and self determination or you don't

This shouldn't be hidden in tags!

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#you can't reconcile the feminist idea that men and women are equals with acting like they're different species

#the feminist idea that women are more than their reproductive systems with the one that womanhood is defined by a reproductive system

#the feminist idea that women don't need to adhere to arbitrary standards of femininity with the one that they do or they aren't women

#the feminist idea that women are allowed to have body hair and be tall or muscular with the one that they're to be scrutinized if they are

#the feminist idea that women as equals to men should be allowed to compete with them with the one that both must always be separated

#i can not consider terfism to be feminism in any fucking way

#and don't say 'no true scotsman' that's not it

#i don't consider feminists for the same reason i don't consider the democratic people's republic of korea a democracy #or nazism socialism. having feminist in their name does not mean their ideas are automatically feminist

#i've yet to meet a terf that actually cares about women more than about hating on trans folk

#there is no feminist belief that can come from someone who views women as vaginas with legs that are too frail to do anything men do

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me as a writer: Oh no I can’t write that, somebody else already has

me as a reader: hell yes give me all the fics about this one scenario. The more the merrier

This one is so hard to accept. Reblogging to knock that into my brain.

Me as a writer: I feel like I’m repeating myself, I’ve already used that theme, I’ve already written that kink, that other character uses that speech pattern so this one in another fandom can’t, I feel like I’m writing predictable things, is this different enough from that other thing I wrote, are people filling out bingo cards by my work? :sobbing:

Me as a reader: oh hell yeah this hit the spot exactly, I hope this writer has written 20 more just like it

Ok but the whole Kinnporsche is the modern Thai remake of Goncharov (1973) joke inadvertently causing people to think that Kinnporsche isn't a real show is very funny cause like.... if without context you told me about a mafia movie from the 70s produced by Martin Scorsese staring Robert De Niro with lots of homoerotic subtext and catholic imagery then you told me about a softcore gay porn show from Thailand about the mafia that had a complete theatrical release, originally based on a novel where the guy who inspired one of the main characters not only funded the TV show but also played the character who was based on him and then asked a guy he met once modeling 10 years ago to come back to Thailand and play the other main character and includes scenes like: lead character getting absolutely railed in an infinity pool in front of Deutsche Bank, side character + antagonist having bdsm gay sex in a torture dungeon following the emotional death of the antagonist's pet hedgehog, and pop star/secret mafia prince leaving dead bodies of would be assailants without context like a stray cat for his ex boyfriend that he broke up with but is also trying to win back. And then you told me that one of these is real and the other is a collective joke made by tumblr people, I would lose my mind when you told which was which.

The way this video lives in my head rent free and the number of times I find it applicable to so many instances throughout my day is unreal

Someone asked for a transcript, so:

“This is what she said: ‘Kim!!!’ Exclamation exclamation exclamation. ‘Sea salt…’ Dot dot dot. ‘Always sea salt! But I’m home for the night.’ What the fuck does that mean? Do you want the fucking cake, or do you not want the fucking cake? Just say, ‘I would like the cake. I can meet you at five o'clock, Kim.’ Or, ‘Kim, I’m not at home today. How— Could I get it tomorrow, would you hold it for me?’ Yes, Ginger, I’ll hold the cake for you until tomorrow. But this is what I said to her: ‘Would you like me to drop it off to you, Ginger?’ Her response: ‘I’m in the country, Kim.’ What the fuck does that mean? ‘I’m in the country’? I— My car drives to the country and the city. It goes all the way to freakin’ Dallas, Ginger! Hmm. Do you want the fucking cheesecake? That’s all I wanna know! But she says, 'But, I could go for it…’ Dot dot dot. 'Yum!’ Do you want the cheesecake? I’m not— I’m not— I’m not pressuring you. You responded to my post. Just tell me, Ginger: do you want the cheesecake? Do I look— Look, I’m in the middle of making this cake. Do I look like I’ve got time— Come look at my 'frigerator. Come look. Do I look like I’ve got time to mess with your— Look. I’ve got cheesecake, I’ve got a strawberry cake, I’ve got a turtle cheesecake here, I’ve got— Look… I’ve got your personal cheesecake right here, Ginger. Ginger, it’s right here. Come get your fucking cheesecake. [sighs] That’s all.”

“That all?”

“That’s all. That’s all I got for ya. I just don’t know why you can’t say, 'Hey, Kim, I would love one of your personal cheesecakes, but I’m out of pocket today. Would you mind holding it for me tomorrow?’ And I would say, 'Ginger, absolutely.’ The conversation’s over! I can get back to working on— to working on my cake. But no, I have to go back and forth with your stupid messages. 'Cause it’s like, boom, boom, 'Yum!’ I know it’s yum! You know it’s yum! That’s why you commented that you— Well, you didn’t really comment that you wanted it, did ya? You just driving me crazy. That’s it. That’s all I got. I can’t do this anymore. Thank you. Goodbye. Love you. Bye.”

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For those interested, here’s her shop:

The rest of the thread is here.

tl;dr: Don’t monetize AO3, kids.  You won’t like what happens next.

read this thread. this is by far the most concise explanation of a lot of different issues that i’ve seen in fandom spaces in a while. cosigning both the linked thread and the thread about aus/uk/can law that’s linked in-thread.

Unmute !

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Woman in purple, in a high pitched, enthusiastic voice: if you’re not at work today or you’re working from home, you may be wondering, whAt day is it?

Man in suit, emotionless and factual: itsmonday

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emotionless and factual? that man is heartbroken. you can hear the grief in his voice.

Guess what day it is again folks

It’s monday

Happy first Monday of 2023 to those two newscasters specifically.