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“i. When they break your heart, don’t blame yourself. Some people are not right for each other. That does not make them better or worse than you. I am so sorry they caused you pain. ii. Stitch your heart back together with love, not hatred. Never stop believing in love. Never stop believing that there is love in everything. Never stop loving. iii. They may have stabbed you in the heart, but your heart is still beating. That is amazing. People will not tell you you are strong as much as you deserve to be told it, but I will. Never forget that you are a warrior. iv. There are songs that will tell you it is okay to harbor anger for the rest of your life. There are songs that will tell you to stick both of your middle fingers up to everyone who makes mistakes that negatively impact you. Turn off the radio. v. Believe in second chances. Believe in third chances. Believe in all of the chances in the entire world. But never back down. Tell people to screw themselves when they deserve it. Tell them you are not a damn doormat. Then forgive them. vi. Don’t be afraid to let go of anything less than you deserve. This includes feelings. Leave anyone who is not positively benefiting you. That does not mean you have to hate them. vii. Remember that there are people who hurt as much as you do. Everyone is fighting battles against the world, and more importantly, battles against themselves. The one who broke your heart is fighting their own battles. They may seem happier than you right now, but they are not always happy. You affected them more than your damaged self-confidence will let you believe. viii. Believe people are good at heart. Believe in the good in the world. Remember the good times. ix. When they break your heart, don’t blame yourself. x. I believe in you.”

— To my future children

“our history was written in bones only”

Margaret Atwood, from Two-Headed Poems

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Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.

Louise ErdrichThe Painted Drum

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“We were the wrong age for love and yet it was all we could think about.”

— Brendan Cowell

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“if looks could kill, I’d go blind so I could touch your face and if bodies could talk, mine would scream for you if blood was ink I’d empty my veins to write you love songs I’ll pull flowers out of the ground and tear the wings off butterflies, because you love beautiful things and I’ll cut off my hair to look a little more like the girl you used to dream about all last December I’ll stop sleeping so if your fingers twitch in the middle of the night, I’ll hear it I’m yours once, I saw a girl carve her lover’s name into her thigh, well, my whole body is a canvas for your teeth I can be what you need if I’m not, I can fold my arms and legs and tilt my head, to fit into the jar on your bedroom shelf I can be what you need, and if I’m not, I’ll let you mold me like hot wax, hardening around your fingers I’ll hold my breath if it makes it easier for you to breathe and swallow fireflies if it makes it easier for you to see in the dark I’ll let you take up all the room in my heart, and my mind Invading me like the army leaving no space for my mother, or my best friend, or myself, no survivors I will burn my white flag for you I will crush my bones into powder and make it snow in the summer for you”

And if you think this is romantic I hope I see the way your face looks when you change your mind (via

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