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Veronica • a divine sin; unholier than thou

@vexingvicky

morbidly erotic deity 🚬 22 • taurus • “Most people have no idea how beautiful the darkness is.”
filthy hedonist • dark, darker, darkest feminine.
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Anonymous asked:

I’m 22 and up until last year I thought being sexy and having sex appeal meant fitting the male gaze. But I learned that my lack of sex appeal is really connected to my lack of confidence. How do I learn how to be sexy without feeling like I’m doing it for male attention?

1. Sex appeal is all about what’s within you. Feeling sexy is a state of mind. It’s about fostering a connection with yourself and becoming comfortable with yourself. Think about why that connection is broken and start from there. Start journaling your progress or at least documenting what has happened or changed to make the connection to your divine self weaker.

2. Affirm yourself by looking and smelling good. Create a beauty routine and stick to it (skincare, hair, body). Wearing perfume is more sensual than you think. Picking out a hot outfit does more for you than you think. Know that you’re looking good for yourself and not anyone else. Buy yourself lingerie for only you to see. Eventually, without lingerie, you can still learn to feel sexy because of how you are programmed to feel about yourself. I can feel sexy in a tank and leggings with no problem.

3. Accentuate your best features and know them. Become appreciative of what your best features are. Admire yourself in the mirror. Take time doing your makeup and really appreciate your face — even if you aren’t going anywhere. Take time moisturizing your body, getting dressed, and looking at yourself in a full length mirror. Developing a positive body image means you appreciate your body’s value. Let yourself know who YOU are so YOU don’t forget, that way nobody else will.

4. Become fully in touch with yourself. Disconnect from what other people think. If you have to turn off notifications on Instagram then so be it. It’s not about what other people think, it’s about what you think. Yoga can help you become more in tune with yourself and block out outside noise. Meditation can as well. There are different kinds of meditation, and plenty guided apps and videos. I personally meditate with yoga.

Speaking of social media, be conscious of the content you consume that can make you feel less sexy. Inspire yourself with high value content so you can focus on you and how you feel.

5. Set goals. By reading what I’ve just said write this down now: “This week I will appreciate my body. This week I will become more comfortable with my sex appeal. This week I will remind myself how irresistible I can be.”

6. Treat yourself like royalty. Eat your favorite foods. Take a long bubble bath or relaxing shower. Spoil yourself by buying things you’ve wanted for a long time. Self love. Light some candles to set the tone of your space — for yourself and by yourself. The more you relax from day to day, the easier it’ll be for you to feel sexy and it’ll come natural. Turn on some sensual music and just let loose on your own.

You have the knowledge already. Now it is just time to do the work and follow through. Commit to yourself and the rest will fall into place. You have to work at yourself religiously. Your most important relationship is always going to be with yourself.

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This!

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babyphat05

It’s important to reiterate how crucial it is to keep your goals to yourself. Even to family members and friends, just keep it to yourself lol. A goal of yours that may sound crazy and bizarre to them may be aspirational to you, and hearing these unsolicited opinions from others really isn’t beneficial to your journey.

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whatever you assume works, simply will.

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It doesn’t matter the method, or if you simply just like knowing you have your desires. Stop over complicating everything! States is not a method, but if you assume it works it will. That’s literally the law, if you assume so it will work. Some people, states may be harder to manifest with because say you manifesting money. Your whole life you had the hardcore belief that money is hard to get, doesn’t grow on trees, and that you don’t get money easily. How is that person going to embody the state of “already being a millionaire” the resistance might be harder to manifest with. This is why i say repetition a+p is easier, because it doesn’t matter how much limiting beliefs you have, it stops you from wavering and it stands you firm in your manifestation regardless of if you believe it or not. If you assume that it “robotic affirming is stupid, and the law isn’t about repeating words, or it won’t manifest how much you repeat it, states manifest thoughts don’t.” First off, if you don’t know what you’re talking about please don’t go spreading information about topics you don’t know what you’re talking about. It’s okay if it’s off YOUR EXPERIENCE, but saying robotic affirming doesn’t work at all is crazy to me. DO WHAT YOU WANT.💕 Happy Manifesting! 💝💝

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Start seeing manifesting from a different view. 🌐

Why only see manifesting as oh I can only manifest this, but I can’t manifest that? Open your eyes. You finally know how to get everything you want, just by your thoughts. You finally can get that dream bod, or the long natural 40 inch hair you always wanted, or that A-List Celebrity, or that job EVERYTHING. You’re now finally spiritually awake. So see the world from a different view. You can’t know about the law and still look at the world the same. You don’t get passed around by awful circumstances because you now know you are god, and you’re in control. So why aren’t you using your power to your advantage? Your reality, your rules. Why not fulfill every.single.one. of your desires you always wanted? Life is not suppose to be miserable, especially for someone who controls every aspect in their life. SO WAKE TF UP, AND STAND TF UP. We aren’t being a victim, you been in that state way too long before you even knew about the law. Wouldn’t it feel good getting everything you ever wanted, instantly when you want it?? Manifesting is such a cheat code, it’s not even fair. There is nothing outside of you stopping you from getting what you want. There’s only you. There’s nobody deciding, saying “no you can’t have that” and this is where start seeing manifesting from a different view. You always are manifesting rather you like it or not, so why not just think thoughts in your favor that satisfy you? Happy Manifesting!💝💝

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Say yes

Do you want that guy/girl? They’re yours. Do you want to lose 50kgs in one day? You’ve already lost it. Do u want to be the most drop dead gorgeous person out there? You’re already them. Do you want to get transferred 30 million dollars right now? The moneys already there.

Manifesting is meant to be light hearted. Yes, sometimes some situations may seem stressful, but when you realise it can be solved instantly from imagination, the problem is gone. When manifesting, you’re not meant to struggle. You’re not meant to cry or whatever. It’s meant to be F U N.

When manifesting something, I notice I naturally say no to things that may seem impossible or something I really want to happen. And then the doubt will come in and I’d stop manifesting it. But as the god/creator of my reality, it literally can be yes. If I want it, why can’t I have it? I’m the only person saying no.

Everything is from you. So nothing cant be a yes unless you say it’s a no. YOU CREATE.

Never bar self. Never say no to yourself. If you want it, claim it as yours and don’t gaf what anyone else says or what the mirror is showing you. This is literally YOUR WORLD. Stop limiting yourself and instead be limitless. You’re literally the creator, the god of your reality. Learn to say yes to yourself. Learn to make yourself happy regardless of how “impossible” or “unrealistic” these things are. Because, who cares? If it makes you happy or it’s something you really want, SAY YES.

Don’t say no.

Say YES.

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star179

YES