you may have liked her post but i liked it in a more profound & intimate way
Shoutout to the bitches that still follow me after I switch up my hyperfixation every 4 months, y'all are the real OGs, here's a king sized candy bar
Ohohohoho!! Allow me!
Unionize every workplace, take breaks, do the bare minimum, commit time theft, and stop breaking yourself for a job that would replace you within an hour of you dropping dead. If they want you to do a proper job, they can give you proper pay and benefits.
my job on the leftist commune will be the first guy to cave and buy us all fast food for dinner after we all realize how much subsistence farming sucks
I wish I could tell Redditors that their abusive parent, in all likelihood, did not have a real diagnosable personality disorder and that armchair diagnosing them with a cluster b personality disorder and then villainizing the mentally ill is not helping anyone. What happened to “my dad was an asshole. a fucking bastard. a jerk who hurt me very badly.” why is it now “my father was a malignant narcissist. I was a victim of narcissistic abuse, not just emotional and physical child abuse. he definitely had NPD and that’s why he was so evil. and I know because I read it online”.
There are many people did have abusive and/or neglectful parents who happened to be struggling with a real, tangible, diagnosed mental illness. It can be helpful to look back and think and know “Some of my parent’s behavior was exacerbated by their hoarding disorder, chronic depression, substance use disorder etc etc. That is an explanation but not an excuse. It was their responsibility to protect me, to try to get better and they failed. They did not continue to hurt me because they were unwell but because they were abusive and selfish. I have a genetic and environmental predisposition to develop the same illness and behaviors so I’m hyperaware of my own health and relationship to keep the cycle from repeating.” but that’s not what the whole ‘narcissistic abuse’ community is about. It’s the opposite of introspective and empathetic and mental health conscious and socially aware.
My father was never diagnosed with anything, he did not believe in mental health, but I believe he has some kind of delusional or paranoid disorder and, like the above says, has given me kinder eyes when looking at my childhood.
He is still an abusive asshole who I have no relationship with, but that's not because he was mentally ill. That's because he was a selfish asshole, and a horribly racist and sexist person. But there are many memories I can look back on and see how much he was struggling and, idk, it makes it sting a little less.
You cannot actually diagnose a parent based on your childhood. But you can say 'they were not mentally stable and I should not have been there' without demonizing those of us with psychiatric diagnosis AND children. We are not all your parents.
You can bring up the possibility with your Dr if you are concerned about your own genetic predisposition. TikTok will not help you. But it does hurt us.
It's courtroom drama logic. People tend to get hung up on the "Why" when in truth the "What" is what's ultimately important
Saw this license plate today and I'm still ugly laughing about it
mr president there appears to be some dark souls 3 type shit happening in the northeast
I wish these people were oppressed
stop tagging this saying shit like “me and jakey!!! 🥺”
Hi! I’m an afab nb with major social anxiety and my partner is an amab, masc-presenting nb who babies me appropriately, I know this is talking about straight couples but like. You can’t tell by just looking at stick figures, just like you can’t tell my partner and I are nonbinary just by looking. Straight-passing queer couples exist and don’t deserve hate just for appearing straight. Straight couples can even have queer individuals involved, one or both could be binary trans, or one or both could be bi.
I hope nonbinary Jakey also dies
a haiku for the bus driver who deliberately drove past me
I swear to god bruh Let me catch you in the streets Bruh I swear to god
Wtf is that? A storm elemental?
Ball lightning fuck me all the way up
Excuse me what the fuck is this
you literally captured whats called “ball lightning” which is the rarest form of lighting
its so rare that we dont even know how it forms other than by heat, static electricity, and humidity
storm elemental it is
look guys this is how nature-based deities and spirits come about this is ridiculous
Are you aware that the first-ever video footage of ball lightning outside a laboratory was taken in 2014 and there are only like 3 or 4 videos like this in existence and this might be the most close-up one
THIS is yet another reason why shaming people for always filming stuff with their phones is dumb. People are documenting things we’ve rarely EVER seen, or have NEVER BEEN CAPTURED ON FILM BEFORE! It’s fantastic!
What a TIME TO BE ALIVE, folks! Ordinary people can capture footage that is of tremendous use for scientific documentation and research! I love this!
…WOW.
…I will always reblog this when it crosses my dash. :)
I forget who I was in another life sometimes
If only long enough to let go, momentarily
Just long enough to perhaps heal a little bit
Or long enough to love again
Happy Pride 💕🥰
Scientists once thought that ADHD symptoms were always present. But previous research from Rapport, who has been studying ADHD for more than 36 years, has shown the fidgeting was most often present when children were using their brains' executive functions, particularly "working memory." That's the system we use for temporarily storing and managing information required to carry out complex cognitive tasks such as learning, reasoning and comprehension.
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when gerard way sings "the broken, the beaten, and the damned" and when kermit the frog sings "the lovers, the dreamers, and me" they're talking about the same people btw
And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?
Charles Bukowski
stare into my big wet eyes
Me when he says my eyes are mesmerizing 🥺
when i see pads advertised as for “night use”











