don't y9u think it's kind of fucked up and immoral that you go walking around dead people's resting places for fun
do i think going for a walk in a cemetery that's open to the public 24/7 with a footpath and garden and everything is fucked up and immoral? no??? what the fuck???????????
i think it's fucked up that we've made death, an inevitable thing that happens to everyone, into such a taboo subject that enjoying spending time in places where dead people exist is offensive and sinister to you
That's what a cemetery is FOR.
At first I thought anon might be confused and think you’re like, walking OVER graves, which has a superstition against it and is considered bad luck and also in bad taste—but no I had to go back and reread their ask to confirm they definitely just say “walking around.”
Like, sorry for occupying the public land in the respectful manner for which it’s intended lol. Girl, the souls are lonely they enjoy the visit. Why don’t you go walk around the grounds of a local cemetery and feel the stillness of life and death communing together peacefully and maybe you’ll calm down.
Also I know this isn't hugely relevant but it is in fact psychologically healthy to hang out in graveyards. Performing tasks that "touch death" (mindfully and deliberately hanging out in graveyards or mausoleums, spiritual practices that involve pondering death in a down-to-earth and mature way, writing wills or memorials for loved ones, attending to corpses, etc.) are necessary psychological tasks. Why do you think so many religions, including those without a concept of an afterlife, have some kind of regular death or funerary practice in them? A graveyard is a public place and you're supposed to go there and spend time with the dead in it for your health.
I mourn the modern cost-saving, money-skimming graveyards where the average person gets a tiny plot and a flat metal plate as a plaque because the businesses involved have figured out that they can get away with draining every dollar without needing to pay any stonecarvers. Bring back the angel statues. Death is supposed to be present and visible and beautiful. It's good for us.









