Avatar

@ukeenator

welcome to my happy place

Femme Fatale Guide: Simple Ways To Look "Effortlessly" Put Together

  • A fresh haircut
  • Maintaining a regular skincare routine 2x/day
  • Applying SPF daily
  • Exfoliating 2-3x/week
  • Moisturizing all your skin daily
  • Dermaplane your face
  • Do a skin/hair mask weekly
  • Flossing daily & using a whitening toothpaste
  • Filled in (but natural-looking) brows
  • Wearing mascara, light concealer, and a hydrating lip balm/"you lips but better" cosmetics shade
  • Cut, file, and polish your nails. Keep it clean & simple
  • Invest in seamless and proper-fitting undergarments
  • Wear neutral, monochrome outfits that incorporate tailored cuts in luxurious fabrics that pair well together
  • Use a steamer/lint roller on your clothes before heading out the door
  • Invest in high-quality, well-structured handbags and shoes that pair well with almost any outfit
  • Put on a precious or sleek statement piece (or two potentially in the former case) of jewelry to elevate your look. Don't overdo it
  • Applying a few sprays of a signature scent that suits the season/occasion
Things You Can Control ✨✨
  1. How you respond to others and situations.
  2. Where you spend your time and who with.
  3. The shows, books, news and social media you consume.
  4. What you do with your free time.
  5. What you say to others.
  6. What you think about.
  7. How hard you try.
  8. What you allow or don't allow from others.
  9. Good or bad routines you follow.
  10. What you aim for in life.
  11. Being positive or negative.
  12. Eating, exercising, and resting.
  13. Learning new skills or knowledge.
  14. Who you hang out with.
  15. What you buy and spend on.
  16. Keeping your space clean or messy.
  17. What fun activities you pick up.
  18. Saying "thank you" and feeling thankful.
  19. Knowing when to say "no" or "enough".
  20. What you hope for and dream about.
  21. Doing nice things for others.
  22. Picking one thing over another.
  23. What's most important to you.
  24. What you do every day.
  25. What you feel is true or right.
  26. Taking time for yourself.

skills that will never stop serving you☆ . °🪷

  • the ability to sell/negotiate
  • listening and learning from others
  • ability to speak in front of people
  • staying positive/optimistic
  • persisting and continuing to try regardless of failure
  • understanding other people’s feelings
  • ability to say no
  • making smart decisions that have a high ROI (return on investment)
  • managing ur own time and money
  • how to adapt, improvise, and overcome struggles and obstacles
  • asking for help
  • conveying what u think and feel
  • staying consistent (discipline)

I have nothing to lose anymore