who am i

If I ever seem arrogant or anything like that, please know I’m joking 100% I have zero self confidence and I sometimes pretend that I think im dead cool and awesome because I’m actually terrible so it’s mildly funny

going to bed after watching a scary movie

Anne Frank’s Diary (via funeralfaerie)

every single touch we ever touched each other every single fuck we had together is in a wondrous time lapse with us here at this moment the history of touches every single archive compressed into a second

Maybe he will come out of this loving me Maybe he won’t I’m not taming no animal Maybe he will come out of this

What is Gaslighting?

Does your significant other say things like this to you a lot? Do you often start questioning what’s really true – or even your own sanity – within your relationship? If so, your partner may be using what mental health professionals call “gaslighting.”

This term comes from the 1938 stage play Gas Light, in which a husband attempts to drive his wife crazy by dimming the lights (which were powered by gas) in their home, and then he denies that the light changed when his wife points it out. It is a very effective form of emotional abuse that causes a victim to question their own feelings, instincts, and sanity, which gives the abusive partner a lot of power (and we know that abuse is about power and control). Once an abusive partner has broken down the victim’s ability to trust their own perceptions, the victim is more likely to stay in the abusive relationship.

Signs of being a victim of gaslighting (Stern, 2009) include:

If any of these signs ring true for you, give us a call at 1-866-331-9474, chat online, or text loveis to 22522. Our advocates are here to support and listen to you!

[Head over to loveisrespect.org to read this blogpost in its entirety.]

IMPORTANT TO POINT OUT THAT YOUR OWN FAMILY AND FRIENDS CAN GASLIGHT YOU THROUGH VARYING DEGREES OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE LIKE MINIMIZING YOUR FEELINGS AND MAKING YOUR EMOTIONS FEEL INVALID OR INSANE. THIS ISN’T JUST FOR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS.

Yes. Now leave amber and john alone.

We’re really not sure, the child has told us, the parents have told us, strangers have told us… But we’re really not sure.

HOW TO REMOVE PESKY STICKERS FROM YOUR BOOKS (contains naughty words)

THIS IS A PSA.

This is important

This also works amazing on SNES or NES games where some dummy decided it would be a good idea to put a price sticker on the game label.

*flies to australia* *goes to a club* *finds calum and luke* *drives them home* *tucks them into bed* *kisses their foreheads* stay

me getting ready for valentines day

i love this post bc people always tag someone else and that other person is always like “shut up i hate you”

when people say “men are dogs” it’s like… how could u compare dogs (which are pure, beautiful, too perfect for this world) to something like men

the first of what im assuming will be many angered men in my inbox (note: dogs would not do this)

The girlfriend experience

THIS IS SO ME OMG

OMG yes lol

do you ever get so disgusted with yourself, like you can not believe how stupid and thoughtless you are and it’s so frustrating because you keep telling yourself that you’ll do better next time but then next time rolls around and the same thing keeps happening and you end up in this pattern of mediocrity.

stop for just one second.

think about all the people you’ve secretly had a crush on. all the people you’ve found attractive, but never said anything to. every stranger you’ve temporarily fallen in love with on public transportation. all the people you’ve dreamt of and thought of in the early mornings.

and now take a moment to realize that they’re lizards. all of them. they were all reptilians in disguise

can we just appreciate the fact that my best friend, who in the past struggled with an eating disorder, called out my gym teacher bc he says a size 3 for women is “ideal”

(((The average now for women is a size 14)))

DUDE GOD BLESS HER

I can’t tell you how happy this makes me

YOU GO GIRL!!

oh my god yes

YES GIRL UR MY HERO

Reblogged so fast.  ”How dare you?”

GURL YOU TELL HIM

Look it’s the old me.

This girl is my role model.

Tears….Every ring has a story to tell…Never again.

hue jackman

i showed this to my sister and she slapped me