hi! i've had this server for a while but i never really promoted it so
come join the AroAce Discord server!
anyone on the spectrum is welcome to join (:

hi! i've had this server for a while but i never really promoted it so
anyone on the spectrum is welcome to join (:
what black mirror episode are we in now
never will forget the gay porn I watched where the director quietly told the bottom to “lose the anime voice” and you could see overwhelming disillusionment form in his eyes
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trans people who are anti t4t make me so sad. because beyond just not knowing what being t4t means, the fact that they believe that t4t is just being a chaser is indicative of a deeper issue, being that cis people have ingrained the idea that we are unfuckable and unloveable, disgusting by nature, and that anybody who would voice attraction to us, a step further, ONLY CHOOSE TO DATE TRANS PEOPLE, would be a pervert with a disgusting fetish who wont see them as equal.
thats not what t4t is.
t4t is the rejection of the idea that we are inherently disgusting, just because we are in the eyes of a cisnormative society.
t4t is the understanding that we are safer and stronger together as a community than apart.
t4t is seeing your trans boyfriend try on clothes from your old boy wardrobe that you hated growing up but now your least favorite shirt is your favorite because its the perfect shade of red that brings out his eyes.
t4t is teaching your trans girlfriend that has been scared to do her own makeup how youve learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women.
t4t is doing your testosterone shots together and kissing each others sticks after you put the bandaid on.
t4t is holding the door for your trans girlfriend and showing her the chivalry she didn't get from her dad growing up, but its ok because you can show her now.
t4t is being on the phone with your partner who just came out as trans/nonbinary after seeing you, YOU, live your truth, and them asking you to help them find a new name, the perfect name for them, and you hope theyll carry that part of you forever.
you are trans and that is beautiful. your transness is beautiful. trans love is beautiful. dont let ANYBODY make you feel unworthy of sex or love. THATS what being t4t means.
Myste the Umbreon/Cosmog pokemon fusion!
First picture is made by deviantart user iguky
Here at Tumblr, we’ve been working hard on reorganizing how we work in a bid to gain more users. A larger user base means a more sustainable company, and means we get to stick around and do this thing with you all a bit longer. What follows is the strategy we're using to accomplish the goal of user growth. The @labs group has published a bit already, but this is bigger. We’re publishing it publicly for the first time, in an effort to work more transparently with all of you in the Tumblr community. This strategy provides guidance amid limited resources, allowing our teams to focus on specific key areas to ensure Tumblr’s future.
In order for Tumblr to grow, we need to fix the core experience that makes Tumblr a useful place for users. The underlying problem is that Tumblr is not easy to use. Historically, we have expected users to curate their feeds and lean into curating their experience. But this expectation introduces friction to the user experience and only serves a small portion of our audience.
Tumblr’s competitive advantage lies in its unique content and vibrant communities. As the forerunner of internet culture, Tumblr encompasses a wide range of interests, such as entertainment, art, gaming, fandom, fashion, and music. People come to Tumblr to immerse themselves in this culture, making it essential for us to ensure a seamless connection between people and content.
To guarantee Tumblr’s continued success, we’ve got to prioritize fostering that seamless connection between people and content. This involves attracting and retaining new users and creators, nurturing their growth, and encouraging frequent engagement with the platform.
To enhance Tumblr’s usability, we must address these core guiding principles.
Below is a deep dive into each of these principles.
STOP TRYING TO TURN TUMBLR INTO EVERY OTHER PIECE OF SHIT WEBSITE AND SOCIAL MEDIA SITE ONLINE.
BEING DIFFERENT AND UNIQUE IS WHAT MAKES TUMBLR SPECIAL!
STOP CHASING ALGORITHMIC BULLSHIT AND ACTUALLY LISTEN TO THE PEOPLE WHO DO USE THE WEBSITE REGULARLY. IF YOU IMPROVE THEIR EXPERIENCES THEY’LL HELP RECRUIT PEOPLE OUTSIDE TUMBLR TO JOIN.
STOP THIS STUPIDITY.
dating-type app but instead of matching for romance it connects writers/artists+ who don't want to do research with autistic people with the appropriate special interest
the creators get the needed information without needing to filter out filler and translate technical jargon, and the autistic person gets someone who's willing to listen to their infodumps. what is there to lose
and the autistic person subsequently gets to read stuff about their hyperfixations
Some days I feel way worse about being autistic than I ever did about being trans. At least there's meds and treatments that can change my body. I'm dealing better than I was years ago. But my autism, there's no fixing that. There's no way to improve there. It gets me down
Am just curious but...why do you feel like your autism is something to fix?
No judgement (I'm autistic too) but I'm just curious
I mean it gets in the way constantly. Communication issues. I seem to upset people all the time, no matter what I try. I've seen therapists, gone to classes, I grew up in special ed, but I've never managed to mask consistently enough to get along with people. Even other autistic people. It's just a lot, all the time.
Oh lookie here, somebody’s tying to reap the rewards of being loved without subjecting themselves to the mortifying ordeal of being known
wildest argument against climate change i’ve ever heard
no thanks
just realizes olive oil comes from olives…. much to think about
i will not have y’all humiliate me like you did when i said i thought microwaves just blew hot air on the food
Bro.
i thought the spinning helped it cock faster leave me ALONE????
stop reblogging this i can’t be known for this