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tis the ✨mitosys✨

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How do I explain to you people that interracial relationships are okay

Not every white person dating a POC is fetishizing. White people can be respectful and responsible when it comes to culture and relationships and not everyone has bad intentions.

Asian people can date Black people without you saying shit like “your kids will be so pretty” they’re not dating for pretty kids. They’re dating bc they like each other.

Someone can dress their partner in clothing from their culture if they want. Someone can take their partner to cultural events if they want.

People in relationships can share cultures, experiences and love without it being toxic or skin deep.

Their partner isn’t culturally appropriating. Their partner is being shown the ultimate form of love, bc their partner trusts them and loves them enough to share their history and heritage.

Yeah, dating someone from your culture is nice bc you automatically have similar experiences. But you’re not limited to dating people with the same experiences. Loving someone is sharing and growing and being together.

Interracial relationships aren’t always toxic, and some of y’all need to stop projecting onto other people.

👆 THIS 👆 👏👏👏

Calling ineterracial relationships toxic or fetishizing just seem like anti race mixing or racism with extra steps

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This reminded me of this

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dragging myself around in a circle with lines under my eyes baring my teeth in a grimace fingernails digging into the ground eyes crazed barely seeing what's in front of me

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Tumblr user crabussy I believe you may be in need or bottled spring water

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blood of the people who have wronged me

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dragging myself around in a circle with lines under my eyes baring my teeth in a grimace fingernails digging into the ground eyes crazed barely seeing what's in front of me

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Tumblr user crabussy I believe you may be in need or bottled spring water

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blood of the people who have wronged me

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dragging myself around in a circle with lines under my eyes baring my teeth in a grimace fingernails digging into the ground eyes crazed barely seeing what's in front of me

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Tumblr user crabussy I believe you may be in need or bottled spring water

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blood of the people who have wronged me

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“the only flowers a man will get are at his funeral” wrong and stupid. tell your girl you like flowers. name 3 flowers you like. put vases full of flowers around your house. everyone will catch on.

Hey. Thank you for posting this. I asked my partner if he liked flowers and I am buying him a dwarf rose bush today!!! I’m so happy you were there to remind me to ask him!

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It never hurts to ask! You might find out they love flowers or you might find out they’re allergic.

Best wishes to your man and his dwarf rose. I wish them post longevity. There is a dwarf rose at my childhood home that is grown from the cuttings of a rose that belonged to my great grandmother. Did you know the oldest rosebush in the world is over 1,000 years old?

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a piece of media that is bad: mundane. effectless

a piece of media that is bad but had the potential to be so so good: unbearable. agonizing. soul crushing even