Loving Your Enemy
“In English the word ‘love’ primarily refers to a feeling—an emotion that happens to you. Can you see that Jesus means something very different by ‘agape’? Something totally different. Do you have warm feelings toward Zacchaeus when he backhands you? Is Jesus asking you to generate warm feelings towards Zacchaeus when he backhands you? We’re talking about and attitude—a mindset, and then an action that flows from that mindset. God has chosen to perform actions of kindness and generosity toward people regardless of how they behave, regardless of if they like him or if he happens to like what they’re doing at the moment. God has chosen to agape. So in Jesus’ teaching, it’s not like he’s asking you to generate warm fuzzies for your enemies, he’s asking you to choose to view them in a certain way—to choose to view them the way God sees this person. Within God’s economy, this person is beloved, they’re a human being, they’re made in God’s image. And they might be screwed up in ways that are different than me but they’re a human being made in God’s image. And God has come among us in the person of Jesus to choose to do an act of love on their behalf. If I’m a disciple of Jesus, I don’t have the right or the authority to treat someone as unloved, when Jesus has treated them as someone who is loved. That’s the logic of this here, so that you may become children of your Father who is in Heaven. This is an image-bearing human being, I actually don’t have the right—in the kingdom— to deny someone kindness and generosity.
It’s not like you just lie in bed thinking “I just love that person.’’ No, it’s more like “I can’t stand that person, but they’re made in God’s image. Jesus gave his life, he lived and died for that person, so I choose to adopt an attitude of kindness and generosity” There are some actions that we do because we feel like doing them. It’s not hard for us to choose to acts of kindness and generosity for people who are like us, toward people who are in our circle of family, toward people who are in our religious tribe, or our social-niche tribe, but that’s not the issue. The problem is that we love people within our tribes and we hate people outside of our tribes. Who wants to argue with Jesus on that one?
Maybe it’s the sabbath, and you’re having picnic with your family by the Sea of Galilee and a troop of Roman soldiers comes walking up and they’re carrying their heavy bags; they’ve been out on patrol around the lakes. Where these guys show up, there’s trouble. All of a sudden swords come out and you hear “You Israelite,” and the bags get thrown on the ground “pick up that bag and carry it up over that hill.” and they totally have the right and authority to do that. You’re a disciple of Jesus, what do you do?
We think that if we’re a disciple of Jesus, you just obey and then don’t do anything. Just do what your told, submit, let people walk all over you. That’s how many people perceive Jesus’s teaching, but that’s not what Jesus said. He said, you don’t shrink away, you find a place within you (because Jesus has opened up a place within you) to find compassion for this man. You say “Zacchaeus, you’ve had a bad day, clearly. Do you need to get anymore out? Here’s my other cheek.” You say to that Roman soldier “ You look so tired, could I have the privilege of carrying your bags to your doorstep? Could I do that for you?”
What is that? That is not being passive. That is not doing nothing. That is a very intentional, active response. What do you call that. It’s not revenge or retaliation. But it’s also not being passive and doing nothing. What is it? What Jesus calls it is Agape.”
—Dr. Timothy Mackie on Matthew 5:38-48