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micky | 24 | she/he/they/ey | bi genderqueer fem/futch | USA
quirky fashion enthusiast, platform shoe collector, 100 gecs enjoyer. #1 Left At London stan. Rushpartyofcanada Honourary Canadian.

self-flagellation and self-bullying are all bad motivators for change BTW. it can be hard to escape from a spiral but genuinely u have to be nice to urself or nothing will change

you have to take care of yourself and not punch yourself down because you feel like you 'deserve it'. if you feel like the world is against you, you should at least be on your own side while you work through things.

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I could really use some financial help right now. I have no gas, no food, and no way to pay my rent. Could someone/anyone help me out? I can’t work right now as I’m going through the disability process. Please share or help if you can.

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So it’s June 7th and I’m still short on rent money. The eviction process starts on the 15th and I really could use some help here

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Also since gofundme takes a few days and takes a cut, you can also PayPal me here

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[ Text: Calling all dog owners: The doctors and team at Bryan Animal Clinic want you to know that the artificial sweetener xylitol is now being marketed as “birch sugar.” Xylitol is extremely toxic to dogs and can cause liver failure. It is commonly found in peanut butter, chewing gum, and ice cream. End ID ]

Here is a source if anyone wants to read up on it more, from the FDA’s official website: Click me!

Here’s a source link!

Thanks you!

i think if we’re going to have conversations about consent we should talk about how consenting to something doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to be a good experience, and having a bad experience doesn’t necessarily mean someone violated your consent. this can apply to a lot of situations but the two i’m thinking of right now are sex and transition.

you’re getting it on with someone. you enthusiastically consent to having sex with them. afterward, you feel a little weird about it. maybe even distressed. maybe they did something you didn’t enjoy and in the moment you just didn’t say anything. maybe you just realized after the fact that you were not in a good headspace for sex and now your mental health is declining. that doesn’t inherently mean the person you had sex with violated your consent. sometimes it just means you need to take a break from sex or work on communicating your needs or boundaries better during sex.

and with transition, i feel like this is something that gets consistently overlooked but like. there will never be zero detransitioners. there will always be people who decide that actually transition wasn’t right for them. they could have had the best most thorough doctors in the world who did everything by the book and got full informed consent at every step. and some people are still going to decide they don’t like the changes and wish they hadn’t transitioned. that doesn’t mean that the doctors violated their consent, and that doesn’t mean that transition shouldn’t be available to anyone. it just means that we need to have more resources available for folks who detransition.

regret does not automatically mean someone did something wrong. regret is simply one possible result of having bodily autonomy, and i think we need to get more comfortable with that.

Nobody should be using GPT detectors for anything important.

This is from a recent study that found that GPT detectors were misclassifying writing by non-native English speakers as AI-generated 48-76% of the time (!!!), compared to 0%-12% for native speakers.

It is irresponsible to use AI-generated text detectors as evidence of academic misconduct, and that's putting it mildly.

what if i made a juneteenth post for me and my girlfriend. i don’t need any help but like i deserve some form of reparations yknow

i’m gonna do it

you should help two black girls for juneteenth!

my girlfriend, a black trans woman, is in dire straits. she needs help with transportation until tuesday! her cash app is $KillerRose13

i (black bisexual tme bigender girl) dont need TOO much help but i do struggle from time to time with work transportation myself. i just need $40 for tomorrow but if i don’t get it i have another way to get around. my cash app is $bitterandblack.

if you need any other pay links, dm me for them!

thank you 🖤🩸

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its pride month plus juneteenth is coming up so now is the perfect time to help me out! im a black transgender man who lives in florida, which is incredibly stressful rn! the main thing i need rn is new binders! i have been using the same binders for almost 3 years now and they are quite literally falling apart. other than binders im in need of money for groceries and other household items! anything helps and i also do commissions if youre interested!

my cashapp: shineymeowth

venmo: darkestlariatt

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I wish Americans fucked with more foreign music. You don’t have to know the language to appreciate a good record. Folks in other countries listen to our music and don’t speak a lick of english. Music needs no translator

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yall wont trick me into listening to kpop

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choose a country, pick a decade, and GO!!

you’ll get an endless streaming of songs (ad free!).

I personally found myself loving 1970s Ghana, Senegal and Cote d’Ivoire! Also 1920s and 1970s Japan for sure! Cambodian music: spectacular. Love Armenia and Mali as well. I’ve been told 70s Germany is weird and 30s Algeria is cool but I haven’t gotten around to those yet. Italy’s 1960s is bomb ofc but I’m biased ;)

Story time:

In middle school biology, we did an experiment. We were given yams, which we would sprout in cups of water. We then had to make hypotheses about how the yams would grow, based on descriptions of yam plants in our books, and make notes of our observations as they grew.

Here’s what was supposed to happen: we were supposed to see that the actual growth of the plant did not resemble our hypotheses. We were then supposed to figure out that these were, in fact, sweet potatoes.

What actually happened was that every single student in every single class lied in their notes so that their observations perfectly matched their hypotheses. See, everyone assumed the mismatch meant they had done something wrong in the process of growing the plant or that they had misunderstood the dichotomous key or the plant identification terminology. And, thanks to the wonders of a public school education, everyone assumed the wrong results would get us a failing grade. We were trying to pass. We didn’t want to get bitched out by the teacher. Curiosity, learning, science - that had nothing to do with why we were sitting in that classroom. So we all lied.

The teacher was furious. She tried to fail every student, but the administration stepped in and told her she wasn’t allowed to because a 100% fail rate is recognized as a failure of the teacher, not the class. It wasn’t even her fault, really, though her being a notorious hard-ass didn’t help. It was a failure of the entire educational system.

So whenever I see crap like Elizabeth Holmes’s blood test scam or pharmaceutical trials which are unable to be replicated or industry-funded research that reaches wildly unscientific conclusions, I just remember those fucking sweet potatoes. I remember that curiosity dies when people are just trying to give their superiors the “right” answers, so they can get the grade, get the job, get the paycheck. It’s not about truth when it’s about paying rent. There’s no scientific integrity if you can’t control for human desperation.

There’s no scientific integrity if you can’t control for human desperation.