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Tradwife in Training

@trad1onalbaby

Hello and Welcome! Saved and Christian ✝️ 22 and Taken 🧎‍♀️ Submissive to My King 💜🔒

I truly love serving my husband. Yes I do. I want to press on an ice pack on his back and shoulders after he returns home to relax his muscles, I love looking up recipes from various countries, experimenting with all sorts of soups and breads and sausages and comfort foods and fancy foods just to serve a warm, loving meal. I love waking him up with loving kisses and head scratches each and everyday(nearly) while he snuggles at my chest for a while before pulling me close and enveloping me in his big arms. I love decorating our house so he's always in a comforting loving atmosphere. I love submitting to him and letting him be the man. This doesn't mean I don't have a voice in our home! Of course I do. But I leave the final decisions in his hands. I love making little gifts for him, sewing his clothes, fixing his shoes, checking his belongings to be at their right place, I really do love it. He's my husband!

And do you know what I get in return ladies. Love. Affection. I'm drowning in love and affection. Good conversations snuggled under a blanket. Intimate moments. Him helping me around the house somedays. Random flowers and gifts and back hugs. Marital bliss. There is true peace in this lifestyle. Homemaking is my calling. Tending to the house, our food garden, babysitting kids, reading, studying and participating in academic courses for fun and the betterment of my soul, hosting dinners, caring for aged relatives, volunteering —life is peaceful. And with the right man beside me, it's downright blissful.

The reason I believe so much in traditional roles is because it truly brings peace to both me as well as my husband. One of the greatest compliments he has ever paid me is along the lines of "you give me so much strength" "you brighten up my life and heart" "I feel needed and wanted and that is such an amazing and important feeling for me" and he protects me, cares for me, indulges me, caresses me, and I'm all the more happier for it. I am loved and cherished and adored. There is peace in this way of living, that's all I'm saying.

I want traditions. I want good china and cutlery that we only use on special occasions. I want to go on holiday twice a year. I want my hair and nails done once a month. I want to make you dinner every night and serve you first. I want an allowance. I want to ask permission for big purchases. I want to be the type of woman who says “I’ll have to ask my husband.” I want you to choose what I eat in restaurants. I want you to make the big decisions and I want to defer. I want to look after your every whim. I want to be your idea of perfection.

More importantly, I want you to want that too.

When people approach me and say something among the lines of: "How can anyone willingly read the BIBLE ??" Sis, the Bible is the most gripping read I have ever had. There is romance, miracles, murder, slavery, sex, forbidden love, adventure, love triangles, grief, drama, tragedies, wonder, there is power and evil and destruction, there is so many characters to love and it's educational too, it's stories from thousands of years ago, it's a thriller, historical romance, a children's book, a drama, a story to heal your heart, it's a wild roallercoaster of a story and fascinatingly interesting even for people who don't believe in Jesus. It's the most sold book worldwide. And you wonder why I like it ??

AMEN!

I see so many people saying that they're gonna be homeschooling their children and I just wonder why? You can let your children go to school and still give them good values, and correct their learning at home so why not let them go socialize with other children their age, I think learning different opinions is very valuable

Everyone homeschools for different reasons so lets look at a few of those

1. Because homeschooling kids regularly out preform public school kids in academics

2. Alot of parents were under educated and seriously traumatized by the public schools

3. Flexibility in both schedules and curriculum as well as an opportunity for child lead learning

4. Public school is not for Socializing and homeschooling children are better at Socializing with people from different age ranges and backgrounds

5. Public schools teach you how to shut up and memorize a facts not how to learn or think for yourself

6. Public schools mirror the prisons in ways that make many parents deeply uncomfortable

7. I don't want the state "teaching " my kids that's my job

8. Bullying and lack of resources for struggling students

Public schools are not for Socializing your kids and homeschooling kids do regularly get to socialize also Public schools are often not going to expose them to different opinions real world learning is far better for that.

Bringing this back up as school is getting ready to start for many.